Interracial dating in SA is easiest if you are a white male- thoughts?

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My thoughts, definitely yes, unless you have below average care in keeping yourself presentable and or socially adept. I''m and Indian guy and my claim is that interracial dating definitely is easier for the average white man as compared to men of other races. This is not to say other men can date interracially, many can and do but he will have to put in more effort as compared to the average white guy.

I was having this conversation with my friend the other day. He's 20, white, male, not the most good looking though he does have some swag and he hooks up with a lot of girls. He told me that it is easier for him as a white male to hook up with non-white girls than white girls.

A black girl also once told me that there are many black girls that would like to date white guys because of the positive social aspect that comes with it.

As an Indian guy, I even know that when Indian girls bring home white guys, its viewed positively. If she brings home a black guy on the other hand, he will have to do some proving before he gets approval of the family (the more high social status he is, the less work he will have to do). He will however have to do much more work than the average white male). I remember Khaya Dlanga wrote something similar about coloreds having this sort of mentality as well.

I also logged on to the interracialdating central website and viewed some profiles from SA (its a site aimed at creating interracial relationships), I noticed that nearly all girls there list looking for a white partner and a significant number even state that they will date white exclusively. This was looking through black, Indian, colored and a few Asian girls.

White guys in SA definitely have the biggest dating pool IMO. The only ones who they will have difficulty approaching and successfully dating IMO are Muslim girls but then again so will anyone who is not-muslim. I as a non-muslim Indian guy will probably have the same difficulty getting approval from a muslim as any non-muslim does including white guys.

Also, most white women date white exclusively (no questions asked), thats what I get from viewing their profiles on SA dating sites. Also, the few that do date interracially usually date non-white guys who grew up in majority white places take for instance Siya Kolisi (Springbok rugby player) and Mmusi Maimane.

This is in no way a redpill rant. Its just to point out to white guys that they will have it easier than us in this regard compared to non-white guys.

Also, I can guarentee that if you are a white far left winger, with Slovo, Braam Fischer type attitudes, you will do well with women of color. I have seen this from a few of these guys at University.
 
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I rarely see a white male black female couple, but I often see a black male white female couple.

Easy, I dunno, but a deck-top seems to be the more popular combination.
 
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White- Black is not the most common interracial pairing in SA. According to stats, it is actually colored female- black male. Over recent years, there have also been increasing unions between South Asian immigrants and black women. I think its usually of mutual benefit as the guy gets some level of security and the lady gets a breadwinner (most often they are poor women) I think these guys will be classified as Indian once they get naturalized.
 
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White- Black is not the most common interracial pairing in SA. According to stats, it is actually colored female- black male. Over recent years, there have also been increasing unions between South Asian immigrants and black women. I think its usually of mutual benefit as the guy gets some level of security and the lady gets a breadwinner (most often they are poor women) I think these guys will be classified as Indian once they get naturalized.
If the stats say the most common interracial couple is a black male/coloured female then the answer to your thread's question is:

Black male/coloured female
 

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I'm a white guy with an Indian fiance but doubt I'll ever get her family's approval.

No matter what I'll never date a white girl again though.
 
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Im surprised. From my experiences as an Indian male, most Indian families are supportive of their children dating whites especially the modern, and especially Christian ones. Indian girls also put white guys on a pedestal. I dont blame them, its probably due to media influences. Most of the guys paraded in Western media are white and usually Indian guys are shown depicting stereotypes in Western Media. I know some Indian girls who parade their white boyfriends as if they are some form of Gods. It probably also has something to do with the admiration of fair skin by a lot of Indian people which sickens me.

The parents you are dealing with are probably old school Hindu's but most Indian parents are generally supportive if the guy is white. I doubt you will have to go through anything compared to a non-white getting the approval of white parents and I think if it was a non-white guy in your position, it would have been harder for him.
 

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Judging by the number of black chicks hooked up with German guys at some point or currently I would say it rings true.

But not sure if it applies to your average South African male or only the imports.

Then again I've had plenty of offers for a Top Deck.
 

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Top deck is the way to go!! It's much more easier to get lucky than within your own circle - my one friend scored every weekend... I find black ladies less demanding and less shallow than white ladies
 
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Really? In my life I have seen this a few times but the amount of white male- Indian females far outweigh the numbers of Indian- Male and white -female relationships. I know most Indian males are at least attracted to white females but usually do not have the social capital to approach. The ones that do are usually brought up in white majority spaces.
 
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I have never had a girlfriend before but a lot of girls I have hung out with have been black, one even asked me out but I rejected not because of race but because she was clingy. I also find black women less judgmental as compared to women of other races. But Im assuming if you are a white male your reception from them must be better. I think a lot of them in Western spaces think they have a better chance of scoring with white guys and assume Indian guys are not interested in them. The Indian guys in SA dating black girls are generally found in the poor areas of SA.
 
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I think personally it does apply to most white males in South Africa. The reason why you dont see it so much is because most whites keep to themselves.
 

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Really? In my life I have seen this a few times but the amount of white male- Indian females far outweigh the numbers of Indian- Male and white -female relationships. I know most Indian males are at least attracted to white females but usually do not have the social capital to approach. The ones that do are usually brought up in white majority spaces.
My SO niece has been dating an Indian for several years.
 

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It also depends on where you are.
I think that in JHB, it is a bit easier to hook up with people of other races whereas in CPT, it is a lot more... you'll see less interracial dating in CPT.
 
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It also depends on where you are.
I think that in JHB, it is a bit easier to hook up with people of other races whereas in CPT, it is a lot more... you'll see less interracial dating in CPT.
Yes, but my point is that there is a hierarchy when it comes to hooking up interracially. Probably much easier for a white male as compared to a black male.
 

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Yes, but my point is that there is a hierarchy when it comes to hooking up interracially. Probably much easier for a white male as compared to a black male.
In my social circle I know 3 interracial couples. Two are black men married to white women and one white man married to a black woman.
 
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I don't think you can make that claim has you live in a specific area and only exposed to a limited number of people.
Lets look at Indian South African celebrities. Already I can name a few who dated are married to white men off the top of my head. Sashi Naidoo, Sureshni Rider, Kas Naidoo, Vabakshni Chetty-Miller. Could probably name more if I did the research.
 
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