- Dec 18, 2017
Women are selectively clever ducks. I think most women realize that their sex appeal youth only last so long. In fact if you are looking for a wife or quality life partner and they tell you that they are in it for just love and doesn't care about money or success I would suggest to dump that person immediately.
Any female with that mentality that have no desire to push you to do better/be better is not a quality partner and will just drag you down over the years.
I find it hilarious when I meet friends whos wives dont put any pressure on them to do better and all they want is love bla bla bla. 10 years later these guys are worse off, no drive to do better/provide more. I think one of the most powerful features of women towards men is the potential explosion they put in our minds that would be a lot rarer if men did not want to impress women ie. Douche mentality some might refer to. This same douche mentality is created by women and long term is a great beneficial factor for men where they would otherwise have just been average throughout their life.
It is some sort of interesting mental gymnastics and I wouldn't have it any other way.
In my experience white South African women are very different though. Most will not even give a non-white guy a chance even if he is rich or good-looking, they seem to be incredibly loyal to their white male counterparts on par with Muslim women and more so than other racial groups in this country. Off course there are exceptions.
White European and American girls are different though, many of them who come here for extended stays actually prefer darker skinned guys. Most of the German girls I have seen here for extended visits prefer black guys.