Inviting people over to your house....

[Good.Fellow]

Just a quick question.

If you invite a friend/family over to your house for dinner or braai or tea or whatever. And its the first time you have invited them. Then they come over and you have a great time. Do you wait for them to reciprocate or do you invite them again.

What rules do you follow?

Remember the context is Cape Town

 

[Datura]

/does not compute

Are you really this socially immature?

I'm done. Blocking this retarded subforum.

 

[DerpiesFreud]

I give no fsks,invite again...but dont make a habit of it unless they reciprocate,expectations will develop otherwise

 

[Good.Fellow]

/does not compute

Are you really this socially immature?

I'm done. Blocking this retarded subforum.

Please be constructive!

 

[Good.Fellow]

I give no fsks,invite again...but dont make a habit of it unless they reciprocate,expectations will develop otherwise

I agree, they have to reciprocate.

 

[SauRoNZA]

Some people I'll just invite again and again because I don't care for going to their place anyway for various reasons.

It's on a case by case basis really.

 

[GreGorGy]

Depends if you want a plutonic relationship with them.

 

[azbob]

So you invited the lady from the office?

 

[Good.Fellow]

So you invited the lady from the office?

Actually she invited herself over. Had a lovely afternoon tea with the kids and missus.

 

[Good.Fellow]

Depends if you want a plutonic relationship with them.

Talking friendship here.

 

[Mortymoose]

Are we not meant to ask for pics in this case? We need more dope on setting?

 

[noxibox]

Generally I wouldn't really care.

 

[Good.Fellow]

Generally I wouldn't really care.

I do, Just don't know why but it bothers me big time.

 

[genetic]

Just a quick question.

If you invite a friend/family over to your house for dinner or braai or tea or whatever. And its the first time you have invited them. Then they come over and you have a great time. Do you wait for them to reciprocate or do you invite them again.

What rules do you follow?

Remember the context is Cape Town

:wtf:

Next you'll ask who must speak first in a conversation...

 

[Good.Fellow]

:wtf:

Next you'll ask who must speak first in a conversation...

That is a completely different story.

 

[ToxicBunny]

Really?

Question does not compute...

If you had fun, invite them over again, if not then don't... what they do is up to them.

I have people I know who's house i never go to.. I don't enjoy myself there, but at my house we all have a blast.

 

[Nerfherder]

/does not compute

Are you really this socially immature?

I'm done. Blocking this retarded subforum.

Cape Town has its own set of rules, many of which are still a mystery to me.

If you invited people over and they had fun... do it again. Don't have expectations about them inviting you over, could be that their home situation is different and they can't have people over as easily.

 

[noxibox]

:wtf:

Next you'll ask who must speak first in a conversation...

Of if you must only lend your friends exactly the same number of things they lend to you. Or count favours.

 

[Rocket Raccoon]

Depends if you want a plutonic relationship with them.

*platonic

A plutonic relationship sounds like some kind of weird geological fetish.

 

[rubytox]

OP reminds me of Gatsby's social ineptness. Sincere but incredibly naive all at once.