But when a dev company refuses to do regular patching/fixes or listens to their community no one bats an eye. The community who spent stupid money on the game trying to support said Indy dev company...
"Sometimes companies do bad things so that means I should support a den of thieves."
Really, you have no excuse in 2017. If you're unsure about a game you have a world of information at your fingertips- professional reviews, game streams, Let's Plays, user reviews. online discussions and so forth.
Rather just say you don't care about the ethical issues. I'd respect that more than making excuses for why you support a company that screws over everyone in the gaming industry, from gamers at the bottom of the rung, through indie developers and all the up to AAA publishers.