Adultery is disappointing, full stop, doesn't matter who's committing it. In the case of Jonty it's more disappointing though possibly because of his squeaky clean image and staunch Christian beliefs...
Yea it is but so are females who don't put out after many many years of being together.
There is a reason men cheat i believe and it always boils down to sex. If you are not getting it at home eventually you will go elsewhere
So females always seem like the victims but maybe if they just put out more things would go better
That is my theory and i am sticking with it.