You're trying too hard, even need to set up strawmen for your arguments. Nobody really cares two hoots if you want to identify a pink flamingo in a tropical krill filled altpan or whatever. When others start insisting everybody needs to do the flamingo dance because somebody thinks they're a flamingo, we have a problem. Will those who assimilates as foxes have the same rights? Do we now insist everybody has to respect the fox assimilator's choice of catching flamingo assimilators? Obviously not. Why then should normal people be impacted by it? That brings us back to the harm these narratives do, also Brazilian waxes. Yes, the victims to that farce were compensated to a small degree, but not to make up for the harm done.
Another question? Why do the decent gay people etc not support this? Not those that have transitioned and quietly go on with their live? They don't wear it like a badge, or a baseball bat, clubbing everybody with it.