Ladies: why would you call a guy "Sweetie"?

Compton_effect

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So if she calls you sweetie you are in the friendzone?
Oh boy. I have made a terrible mistake - I'd better leave my wife of 10 years!

Some women like that term of endearment, don't read anything into it.

PS. No one else survives calling me 'sweetie'
 

cerebus

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If you like her ask her. Stop looking for signs she likes you back.
 

isie

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So if she calls you sweetie you are in the friendzone?
Oh boy. I have made a terrible mistake - I'd better leave my wife of 10 years!

Some women like that term of endearment, don't read anything into it.

PS. No one else survives calling me 'sweetie'

its not just that she called him sweetie, its the entire situation.
 

TheTwo

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Friendzone!!

She is busy gettting her brains banged in on the dashboard with some other "china" while you feed Bingo and pick up lucky's ****!

You should at very least demand a b.j from her.

HAHA So eloquent, love it :)
 

acidrain

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Maybe she isn't calling you sweetie but asking for one?

Just offer her "the lollipop" option.
 

Werner Harding

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Maybe she just really needed someone she could trust with her dogs though..
Does she have the capacity to actually "friendzone" anyone? What are her circle of friends like? You said she was shy after all.
You might just be able to salvage this.. Tell her about what we discussed in this thread.. Mention the friendzone and that you really like her and want to get to be something more. And in person, not over whatsapp.
Or at least that's what I would do..

And that my friend is way you are in the friendzone
 

Random Panda

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When she walks through the door, say to her, " Hey baby, do you know a good vet?...............BECAUSE THESE PUPPIES ARE SICK!!!! ( lift up arms and pull muscles as much as much as you can while putting on your best tough guy face).

Works every time.
 

Drifter

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I'm really confused :confused:

Background: I have known her since the middle of January this year.

We see each other once during the week, walk our dogs together over the weekend and chat regularly over Whatsapp. We get along really well and she's very friendly and talkative towards me.

We've never kissed or held hands. I am still trying to work out where I stand with her. She is fairly shy and introverted.

On Saturday I bumped into her in town and got a big smile from her.

A while ago I offered to look after her dogs (who are her children) for a few days while she goes away on business. Yesterday morning, she arrived to drop them off and when leaving, says to me "Okay - bye Sweetie" with a long hug.

Ladies, what gives here? Is this a bit of interest or what?

Any advice would be appreciated :wtf:

You having Chinese for dinner?
 

smallearth

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Alternatively, search her house/flat for clues while she's gone. I assume you have the keys if you are looking after her dogs... hell, you can even nick some underwear for later umm usage...
 

MartyMarts

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Alternatively, search her house/flat for clues while she's gone. I assume you have the keys if you are looking after her dogs... hell, you can even nick some underwear for later umm usage...

And this ladies and gentlemen is how stalkers are born :D
 

Xino_sam

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I'm really confused :confused:

Background: I have known her since the middle of January this year.

We see each other once during the week, walk our dogs together over the weekend and chat regularly over Whatsapp. We get along really well and she's very friendly and talkative towards me.

We've never kissed or held hands. I am still trying to work out where I stand with her. She is fairly shy and introverted.

On Saturday I bumped into her in town and got a big smile from her.

A while ago I offered to look after her dogs (who are her children) for a few days while she goes away on business. Yesterday morning, she arrived to drop them off and when leaving, says to me "Okay - bye Sweetie" with a long hug.

Ladies, what gives here? Is this a bit of interest or what?

Any advice would be appreciated :wtf:

So you the Dude my Sister spoke about the other day! She said something about this bloke who she made friends with - who is looking after her dogs. She had the impression the other day that he thinks he will get lucky if she ask him to look after her dogs and call him sweetie all the time - by the way she calls her boyfriend noenoe:D
 
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