Ladies: why would you call a guy "Sweetie"?

[Keegan]

Just out of interest, why is being 'friendzoned' considered a bad thing?
Isn't it good to have friends?

It's only a bad thing when you think you could be a good match, but the other party doesn't want to be more than friends.
Hence you do not know where you stand and then if you try and talk about it,
it gets awkward, because the other person just thinks of you as a friend... Then things are never the same... never...

#FriendZonedSucks...

 

[abf]

I'm really confused

Background: I have known her since the middle of January this year.

We see each other once during the week, walk our dogs together over the weekend and chat regularly over Whatsapp. We get along really well and she's very friendly and talkative towards me.

We've never kissed or held hands. I am still trying to work out where I stand with her. She is fairly shy and introverted.

On Saturday I bumped into her in town and got a big smile from her.

A while ago I offered to look after her dogs (who are her children) for a few days while she goes away on business. Yesterday morning, she arrived to drop them off and when leaving, says to me "Okay - bye Sweetie" with a long hug.

Ladies, what gives here? Is this a bit of interest or what?

Any advice would be appreciated :wtf:

My advice is to actually have a conversation with her about whether she is interested in going on a date with you or not. Don't play guessing games about what a word means to her. Ask _her_. Not us.

 

[Random Panda]

This. I'd like to hear of the result (I predict disaster)



EVERY time? How many times have you been in this situation?





Sharrup Eks!

Another crazy!!! I can only laugh.

Please comment on the topic. I know its difficult, but please try. Please put your obsession over a former fourmite away.

Thanks.

 

[Icarium]

Forget the whole "Sweetie" thing. If she's still friends with you after two months and hasn't moved on because she was interested and you haven't made a move, you've got one foot solidly in the FZ.

When she gets back, man up and ask her out. And make sure she knows it's meant to be a date.

 

[GreGorGy]

Another crazy!!! I can only laugh.

Please comment on the topic. I know its difficult, but please try. Please put your obsession over a former fourmite away.

Thanks.

Oh jeezuz you paranoid idiot - you must be eks. If you read VERY VERY carefully, you will note that I told Googoodoll (who quite obviously is not Eks) to sharrup because she is Eks. A play on the whole concept of people being Eks. See? Must I draw a picture? I called some NOT EKS that very thing IN FüCKING JEST!

 

[TehStranger]

Oh jeezuz you paranoid idiot - you must be eks. If you read VERY VERY carefully, you will note that I told Googoodoll (who quite obviously is not Eks) to sharrup because she is Eks. A play on the whole concept of people being Eks. See? Must I draw a picture? I called some NOT EKS that very thing IN FüCKING JEST!

I always knew you were Eks.

 

[GreGorGy]

I always knew you were Eks.

Thank you. Credit at last...

 

[OGroteKoning]

Thank you. Credit at last...

Ooo... Reverse psychology

/Adds GreGorGy to the list

 

[OGroteKoning]

@OP
She is that into you
Ask her out
Court her
Get married
Fück like minks
Raise rug rats
Live happily ever after

/wonders why no one asked for pics

 

[Arthur]

Ignore all advice you receive on the internet. Switch off PC/phone/tab. Deal with her and yourself as subjects, not objects. Be real. Stop fantasising. Stop analyzing. Make room for life to surprise you. Walk. Talk. Eat. Don't force anything. Real things take a while to emerge.

 

[ponder]

You're just a dick in glass case

 

[GreGorGy]

Ignore all advice you receive on the internet. Switch off PC/phone/tab. Deal with her and yourself as subjects, not objects. Be real. Stop fantasising. Stop analyzing. Make room for life to surprise you. Walk. Talk. Eat. Don't force anything. Real things take a while to emerge.

Sage - and remarkably true

You're just a dick in glass case

Ouch - and probably also true.

 

[biometrics]

Can someone please identify Stoners spider damnit!

 

[OGroteKoning]

Can someone please identify Stoners spider damnit!

It's an eight legged fanged spider... Now get back on topic

 

[Kosmik]

Sorry sweetie. You've been friendzoned.

Ja boet, I gotta agree.

 

[buyeye]

Can i play this heks game too pls?

Of course, the first step is to ask people to post picture of their feet.

 

[smallearth]

So you the Dude my Sister spoke about the other day! She said something about this bloke who she made friends with - who is looking after her dogs. She had the impression the other day that he thinks he will get lucky if she ask him to look after her dogs and call him sweetie all the time - by the way she calls her boyfriend noenoe

Oh... she calls me Big Boy

 

[OGroteKoning]

Oh... she calls me Big Boy

See here

 

[dreamrobin]

I'm really confused

Background: I have known her since the middle of January this year.

We see each other once during the week, walk our dogs together over the weekend and chat regularly over Whatsapp. We get along really well and she's very friendly and talkative towards me.

We've never kissed or held hands. I am still trying to work out where I stand with her. She is fairly shy and introverted.

On Saturday I bumped into her in town and got a big smile from her.

A while ago I offered to look after her dogs (who are her children) for a few days while she goes away on business. Yesterday morning, she arrived to drop them off and when leaving, says to me "Okay - bye Sweetie" with a long hug.

Ladies, what gives here? Is this a bit of interest or what?

Any advice would be appreciated :wtf:

I hope you are younger than 20

 

[smallearth]

See here

Lol +1