Ladies: why would you call a guy "Sweetie"?

[redspark]

Not if you're single and horny.

haha

 

[Colin62]

When she walks through the door, say to her, " Hey baby, do you know a good vet?...............BECAUSE THESE PUPPIES ARE SICK!!!! ( lift up arms and pull muscles as much as much as you can while putting on your best tough guy face).

Works every time.

You must have had some riveting conversations over breakfast with all the belters you've pulled with that wit of yours...

 

[isie]

OP Disappeared already?

 

[Colin62]

He's feeding the dogs...

 

[Paul Hjul]

usually a marker of being friendzoned - don't see why that is a problem though, every relationship on this planet has a character and a relationship defined in parameters that people are happy with is a good thing

But the short answer is a girl would call you sweatie for the same reason you'd refer to a girl as a chick it marks gender without implying much more

I usually call somebody dear to friendzone them or dude

 

[GreGorGy]

usually a marker of being friendzoned - don't see why that is a problem though, every relationship on this planet has a character and a relationship defined in parameters that people are happy with is a good thing

But the short answer is a girl would call you sweatie for the same reason you'd refer to a girl as a chick it marks gender without implying much more

I usually call somebody dear to friendzone them or dude

People call me sweatie after a good, long workout.
(which means nobody calls me and my lazy ass sweatie)

 

[SWM]

OP Disappeared already?

Nope - still here reading through the crazy mess I started with this thread!! :erm:

 

[SWM]

Real things take a while to emerge.

What I was thinking. Anyway, I think we'll have a talk when she gets back tomorrow.

 

[faniebraai]

Well. I don't know, but I do know why tappit Afrikaans people call a girl a Cherry.

 

[Keegan]

The relationship has gone to the dogs...

 

[SWM]

Good question...
I think its a good thing to have a relationship with someone who was actually a friend first.

+1

I have a habit of moving too quickly and then things fizzle out.

Oh yes - if it helps anyone: her parents have invited me to their place for a weekend. :wtf:

 

[SWM]

The relationship has gone to the dogs...

 

[isie]

Nope - still here reading through the crazy mess I started with this thread!! :erm:

Since you are reading.
How about some Pics of the girl?
Not the dogs - well maybe the dogs some forumites might be interested in that too

 

[faniebraai]

Since you are reading.
How about some Pics of the girl?
Not the dogs - well maybe the dogs some forumites might be interested in that too

or maybe the girl IS a dog?

 

[isie]

or maybe the girl IS a dog?

to each his own i guess

 

[faniebraai]

to each his own i guess

no, i meant "she's ugly" not an actual dog. that would be weird.

 

[GreGorGy]

no, i meant "she's ugly" not an actual dog. that would be weird.

although it would explain the OP that read:

...A while ago I offered to look after her dogs (who are her children) for a few days...

 

[faniebraai]

although it would explain the OP that read:

ah. so when he says she's got some nice puppies, she thinks he is talking about her children, but he is actually referring to her boobies. solid plan.

 

[Edelweiss]

You want a girl man?
You wanna go balls deep all errday man?
Be an a-hole. Be alpha. Simple as that.
Women are HARDWIRED to go for that schit. What women WANT and what women NEED are two completely different things.

EXHIBIT A:
He is polite, respectful, and very accommodating. This guy is the epitome of sensitivity; He texts you on a regular basis, he’s transparent about his whereabouts and the company he keeps, he’s never cocky or overconfident, he listens to you no matter how shallow or trivial your ramblings may be. In short: he puts you on a pedestal. And no matter how hard you rack your brains out, you just can’t find fault with this guy.

 ^THIS IS YOU.

EXHIBIT B:
He is self-absorbed, arrogant, and smug. He is frustratingly inconsistent; one minute you’re wallowing in his attention, and the next thing you know, he makes you feel about as interesting as a desk lamp. Emotions are non-existent for this guy, he will never make you feel as if his life would substantially change if you disappear, he uses the word “I” so much, you’d be surprised if he blurted out a sentence that doesn't start with it, he makes you feel inappropriate and irrelevant. This guy is a class-A dick.

 <-- THIS IS WHAT YOU NEED TO BE TO GET THE GIRL.

 

[Sherbang]

You want a girl man?
You wanna go balls deep all errday man?
Be an a-hole. Be alpha. Simple as that.
Women are HARDWIRED to go for that schit. What women WANT and what women NEED are two completely different things.

EXHIBIT A:
He is polite, respectful, and very accommodating. This guy is the epitome of sensitivity; He texts you on a regular basis, he’s transparent about his whereabouts and the company he keeps, he’s never cocky or overconfident, he listens to you no matter how shallow or trivial your ramblings may be. In short: he puts you on a pedestal. And no matter how hard you rack your brains out, you just can’t find fault with this guy.

 ^THIS IS YOU.

EXHIBIT B:
He is self-absorbed, arrogant, and smug. He is frustratingly inconsistent; one minute you’re wallowing in his attention, and the next thing you know, he makes you feel about as interesting as a desk lamp. Emotions are non-existent for this guy, he will never make you feel as if his life would substantially change if you disappear, he uses the word “I” so much, you’d be surprised if he blurted out a sentence that doesn't start with it, he makes you feel inappropriate and irrelevant. This guy is a class-A dick.

 <-- THIS IS WHAT YOU NEED TO BE TO GET THE GIRL.

Which exhibit are you Edelweiss?
Your post comes across as a bit bitter, like you have a chip on your shoulder about what women supposedly want.
So I'm guessing you are also exhibit A!