Lady in the office

Good.Fellow

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There is a nice lady in the office where I work and I think she likes me, however we are both married. Any thoughts or ideas?
 

MKFrost

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You mention that you are both married thus showing that you are well aware that this is wrong.

Not sure how long you have been married but if you are going to fall for every person whom you think likes you then you might just as well get divorced and pursue them all.

However, has it ever helped to tell somebody that they are about to burn their fingers? So do as you please but make sure that you understand the consequences of what you are contemplating.
 

Ms_S

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Leave her alone, its not worth it. It doesn't matter if you come across rude, don't even try to be friends with her.
 

R13...

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You think she likes you. Might you're the one with the problem while she's just being friendly.
 

Pooky

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If you feel strongly about it, then tell your wife you are attracted to someone else. Then you can get a divorce and pursue the other lady!
 

D3nz

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Well, that escalated quickly from your previous thread on how to be friends with the women at work.
 

ShaunSA

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There is a nice lady in the office where I work and I think she likes me, however we are both married. Any thoughts or ideas?

Shag her. If the sex is great shag her a few times more.

In a few months come back and create the "I screwed around and furked my marriage up" thread.

Alternatively in a few months come back and create the "I am now married to the lady in the office" thread.

Life is full of endless possibilities. Any choice you make today determines future outcomes. Positive or negative is not known till you just about take your last breath.
 

Frankie23

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Let's say you get to the "I like you, you like me" stage.

If you're not prepared to go the full distance, i.e. destroy two marriages, go through two divorces (and be prepared for the financial ruin it may cause either one/both of you, heaven forbid there are kids involved), and still make it to the end with the same "feelings" you have for each other right now, don't bother.

If either one of you decides somewhere during this process that their feelings have changed, or that they can't go through with it, the other one is screwed.

It's the same as "buddy suicide" - How do you actually know that the other person will also pull the trigger, jump, whatever?

If you do and they don't, you're ****ed.
 

Hamster

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Shag her. If the sex is great shag her a few times more.

In a few months come back and create the "I screwed around and furked my marriage up" thread.

Alternatively in a few months come back and create the "I am now married to the lady in the office" thread.

Life is full of endless possibilities. Any choice you make today determines future outcomes. Positive or negative is not known till you just about take your last breath.

Or a "Help! I'm having a baby and my wife doesn't know"

But ya, troll thread.
 
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