We differ about what a spoiler is. I don't consider these things spoilers, and most forums don't either. You do. Start your own forum and be a boss there.
So does r/anime, which is the baseline I'm using. That and common sense
Also here are a few threads from major anime sites specifically talking about deaths. Note how even the names of the characters that died are considered spoilers. So it's not just me. Tons of people agree.
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-867807/my-favorite-decease-anime-character-is-----?pg=0
http://www.animenewsnetwork.com/bbs/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=26903
http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=1258219&show=0 <- Akame ga Kill fans avoid
http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=1171301&show=0
Are not spoilers in either case as you don't know who and how and why.
Yes you do know who. That's my point, I even re-watched those episodes to see if they could spoil it and they do.
In the first case you pointed out a certain group of lovers getting killed. In that episode they start showing affection to each other before the first murder is revealed, that automatically narrows it down to a handful of characters. When the first one does die you pretty much know who's next on the chopping block. Very important is that the group being murder victims is not even hinted at until the very end of the episode but your post makes it very obvious. Thanks to you any hopes of the others making it are also gone because you said that character X's friends were killed.
The second case is even more obvious. Before the battle, any tension/hope is out the window because you already know someone is going to die. When the scuffle breaks out and it's narrowed down to a few characters it becomes obvious, can't be X because it's the main character, ah it must be Y, she seems the most expendable, and it was. A death supposed to have come from nowhere made obvious by your post.
Completely ruin it? Completely.... completely? Maybe for you. Not for me. And certainly as evidenced on other forums, not for most people out there.
Like I said I browse r/anime a lot, specifically the episode threads and have never encountered posts that expose major plot points like deaths. The ones that do are clearly marked as spoilers and you have to hover over them to see them.
You're just a special snowflake with nothing else to biatch about.
You're just an inconsiderate person that doesn't care about ruining another person's anime experience.
That's ONE of the things they come here for. Duh. ONE of ... English comprehension dude, master it.
Yeah, people come here for lots of stuff, but not spoilers. If you're going to post them mark them clearly.
Posts are not detailed enough. There is no fixed rule for spoilers. One man's spoiler is not another man's spoiler.
By your standards, but not by mine. And what makes your standard superior, especially as I based my standard on foreign forums, where spoilers are banned in forum rules.
Pointing out that someone dies and when it an episode they die, is not spoiling. Pointing out that Akira dies in end of episode 17 while trying to save the princess would be a spoiler. Of course never mentioning Akira after episode 17 would also imply that he pegged. LOL.
Yes it is a spoiler. It's just as bad as those idiots who ran around bookstores screaming "Dumbledore dies!" when the sixth Harry Potter book was released. Many people were pissed off. Why? Did they know exactly when he was going to die? Or how? No. But people dying is a major plot point. "Is he gonna make it?" Is a common trope to build up tension in stories and used all the time in anime/manga. Even in violent stories like Shingeki no Kyojin and Gantz that have people dropping dead every five minutes. Just knowing that someone is going to die takes a huge amount of the surprise out of the story.
From your example Some people may have been hoping that Akira survives and lives happily ever after with the princess but thanks to a post like that a major part of the story is ruined for them. Even if you do not mention Akira by name the episode, plus the fact that you know that someone is going to die, and when in the episode they die, makes it obvious that it's Akira even before it actually happens.
Actually you know what something like that did happen in this thread before. Someone asked why a character from Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann had to die. Didn't mention him by name (but made it obvious), didn't say when or how he died. He was immediately called out by several people and marked his post as a spoiler. His post was replied to and the thread went on. I don't know why this is so hard for you to do.
Ah spoilers can be anything. But reasonable people know that and don't get their panties in a knot over nothing.
See above.