Love makes sex more special? Possibly NSFW

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So Friday night, I got with a female friend I've been feeling out for sometime now. We had sex, crazy kinky sex that every man would love to have but here is the problem. I felt nothing.
Yes I came and she did too but I spent most of the time thinking about other things and not really enjoying the sex and this isn't the first time either.
I've been single for a couple months or so and playing the field but I haven't had sex that felt as good as it did with my ex.. Which left me thinking Love made it feel more special?:confused:

Friday had spankings, gymnast positions(yes she is a gymnast) and all kinds of random stuff but still nothing.

Has this happened to anyone? Quick fix?

Oh and I don't love my ex-GF anymore..Cut all contact and moved on since.

tl;dr : Had sex, real kinky stuff..Just felt indifferent. Whats wrong with me?
 
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NomNom

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You don't love her. And yes love does make sex more special. Best that could come from this is you become friends with benefits imo.
 
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Is sex emotionally better with someone you love? Yes, because you have a deeper connection with that person an actually care about their needs.

One night stands are just to get off with someone else.
 
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yes with emotional attachment sex is better .... try convincing a woman though
 
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Welcome to getting older. You still get physical aroused as easily but to get emotionally aroused gets more difficult the older u get.
 
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Just put pipe like a plumber and focus on gaining wealth, and keep paving that way to your personal success. Getting all emotional about something that can easily be taken away from you is not adding to your overall well being.

:)
 
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Maybe it's her. I could take a test drive and let you know...
 
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The joys of growing up... enjoy it while it lasts! Go for your badge :D
 
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Growing up? You've got to be kidding me. I just got good at getting Friends with benefits :( . Guess I should have started earlier with this type of thing (I'm only 22).
Not really looking for a relationship at the current moment so I guess I'll have to settle for just getting off or maybe not.. Got some thinking to do
 
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<insert-emo-username> said:
So Friday night, I got with a female friend I've been feeling out for sometime now. We had sex, crazy kinky sex that every man would love to have but here is the problem. I felt nothing.
Yes I came and she did too but I spent most of the time thinking about other things and not really enjoying the sex and this isn't the first time either.
I've been single for a couple months or so and playing the field but I haven't had sex that felt as good as it did with my ex.. Which left me thinking Love made it feel more special?:confused:

Friday had spankings, gymnast positions(yes she is a gymnast) and all kinds of random stuff but still nothing.

Has this happened to anyone? Quick fix?

Oh and I don't love my ex-GF anymore..Cut all contact and moved on since.

tl;dr : Had sex, real kinky stuff..Just felt indifferent. Whats wrong with me?
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i disagree
 
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You got your cake and you ate it, but you're still not happy? :(
 
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