Man Sends Wife Spreadsheet of her excuses not to have sex

[Ancalagon]

So, a 26 year old man was fed up with the excuses that his wife gave him whenever he wanted sex, so he made a spreadsheet documenting when he wanted sex, whether he was successful, and if not, what her excuse was. She is also 26 and they do not have kids.

She then posted the spreadsheet to Reddit. Some people sided with her, some with him. Most people agree that the way in which he said it was wrong, even if a lot of people (myself included) understand where he is coming from.

I think they are both failing to communicate. It looks like they have stopped working on their relationship after getting married. I don't think it is her obligation to sleep with him, but the fact that she does not want to indicates serious problems with their relationship. As soon as women start seeing sex as a chore, to me, the relationship is dead. At least, the romance is dead. It should never be a chore.

We have no idea how romantic he is or whether he simply slaps her with his manhood. However, given that it bothered him enough to create a spreadsheet, I suspect it has been going on for quite some time. I think he feels neglected and unloved, which is why he started making the spreadsheet.

He got rejected 27 times and succeeded 3 times in 44 days.


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[reactor_sa]

Lol, discussed on the breakfast express yesterday I think

 

[F1 Fan]

Lol, I kinda side with him...once every 15 days is way too long...

 

[reactor_sa]

She says she feels gross a lot, maybe has self esteem issues??

 

[The_Unbeliever]

Shouldve gone for a proper SQL database instead of a spreadsheet...

 

[wolverine_dcp]

if you have to ask then you doing something wrong

 

[Mike Hoxbig]

Pic of her?

 

[Ancalagon]

Shouldve gone for a proper SQL database instead of a spreadsheet...

Yes, and properly normalized. Should be a SexAttempt table and a DeclineReason table at the very least.

He might have got better results if he had used a PowerPoint presentation complete with graphs.

 

[Mike Hoxbig]

She says she feels gross a lot, maybe has self esteem issues??

She also needed to shower a lot, which she didn't do until the next morning. Might explain it...

 

[Seriously]

But that spreadsheet is in days with missing dates?

Mine is in hours!

/lying.

 

[bokdrol]

She doesn't seem to shower much, even after gym. And she seems to overeat a lot. I'm surprised he still makes attempts.

 

[Ocali]

Married at 26 with issues like this, dam..

sorry is this post some sort of a heads up for single / people in relationships not to get married...

if it is... its brilliant

 

[D3nz]

They've let the romance die in that marriage. Wonder how long they've been married.

 

[Arthur]

Who can blame her? A richardhead who logs his life in a spreadsheet is more than enough grounds for perpetual headache.

 

[Werner Harding]

Married at 26 with issues like this, dam..

sorry is this post some sort of a heads up for single / people in relationships not to get married...

if it is... its brilliant

Hahahahahaha

 

[Polymathic]

she's having an affair bro

 

[grok]

(non-verbal)

Now there's a term that needs no explanation at all

 

[KleinBoontjie]

Pic of her?

Or pic of him, then we can see her side of the story too

 

[jansdejager]

He should take her swinging and see if she loosens up a bit

 

[Venomous]

She also needed to shower a lot, which she didn't do until the next morning. Might explain it...

or she had action elsewhere?