My first scary gay experience

Grant

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perhaps a hint of sorts

clue:
use a toothbrush & toothpaste before visiting if you are going to pant like a dog after being ridden like it's the final night of the rodeo in town.

in all seriousness, strange behavior - i suspect there is a lot more not being said here.

however, if someone tried that **** with me, i would invoke a mexican standoff by getting a strong grip on his nutsak
 

Flip-Flop

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Saw him again last night. I asked him about what he did the other night and why he did it. Asked if it is something he enjoys doing on a regular basis. He just said he wanted to see my reaction and his way of showing me he is boss. Said he wont do it again though if it unsettled me. I wanted to ask some more questions, but I just got a feeling it was not a good idea, so I left it.
He is definitely into some kink judging from his request last night. It is a bit strange, but harmless. Will try and relax about it and see what transpires. If I am not comfortable with something or don't want to do something I must just speak up.

Thank you for the advice everyone.
 

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Saw him again last night. I asked him about what he did the other night and why he did it. Asked if it is something he enjoys doing on a regular basis. He just said he wanted to see my reaction and his way of showing me he is boss. Said he wont do it again though if it unsettled me. I wanted to ask some more questions, but I just got a feeling it was not a good idea, so I left it.
He is definitely into some kink judging from his request last night. It is a bit strange, but harmless. Will try and relax about it and see what transpires. If I am not comfortable with something or don't want to do something I must just speak up.

Thank you for the advice everyone.

Tell him to **** off or don't come crying to us later when you get abused.
Sorry to say but stuff like this just doesn't fly.
I'd rather be blunt and have you understand what a dangerous situation this can be.
 

-Prismo-

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He just said he wanted to see my reaction and his way of showing me he is boss.

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OP, that move was about power - no more no less.

Message - I'm bigger than you, stronger than you - I can do what I like with you.

You called it..

Nice

Saw him again last night. I asked him about what he did the other night and why he did it. Asked if it is something he enjoys doing on a regular basis. He just said he wanted to see my reaction and his way of showing me he is boss. Said he wont do it again though if it unsettled me. I wanted to ask some more questions, but I just got a feeling it was not a good idea, so I left it.
He is definitely into some kink judging from his request last night. It is a bit strange, but harmless. Will try and relax about it and see what transpires. If I am not comfortable with something or don't want to do something I must just speak up.

Thank you for the advice everyone.

Are you comfortable posting as yourself now or did you forget to login as " pietpompies101 " somewhere along the line ?
 

Electric

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You called it..

Are you comfortable posting as yourself now or did you forget to login as " pietpompies101 " somewhere along the line ?[/QUOTE]

We all called it.
He already admitted to being Pietpompme.
 

Garson007

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He forgot.

And being submissive can be fun. It depends on what flip-flop is into. Like I said, send him here when you're done. :p
 

Flip-Flop

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Tell him to **** off or don't come crying to us later when you get abused.
Sorry to say but stuff like this just doesn't fly.
I'd rather be blunt and have you understand what a dangerous situation this can be.

No, I appreciate your opinion. Going to take a breather anyway.
 

Flip-Flop

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Are you comfortable posting as yourself now or did you forget to login as " pietpompies101 " somewhere along the line ?

I had two browsers open when I created this thread. The one was for pietpompies because I wanted this thread to be anon due to the subject matter. The other was for Flip-Flop. I did not pay attention and posted by accident as Flip-Flop. But it is OK. No one on mybroadband knows me. I just did not want to be known on mybroadband as the guy who experimented and almost got smothered.
 

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I had two browsers open when I created this thread. The one was for pietpompies because I wanted this thread to be anon due to the subject matter. The other was for Flip-Flop. I did not pay attention and posted by accident as Flip-Flop. But it is OK. No one on mybroadband knows me. I just did not want to be known on mybroadband as the guy who experimented and almost got smothered.

Rather that than the guy who just vanished from the forums one day...

Anyway, Have fun and do what you enjoy :)
 

-Prismo-

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We all called it.

Okay then explain this to me..

I know of people who do similar rough aggressive type things to show dominance over animals or whatever else but not Humans...

Since when did it become ok to do something like this to assume dominance ?

As a man in a text book house hold you assume dominance as the male and breadwinner without having to smother the wife or kids, it's automatic in most relationships concerning the pants wearing individual..

So how does this work ?


- If a female were to do this to me i'd think of them as a Jerk as opposed to a dominant/boss figure -

I had two browsers open when I created this thread. The one was for pietpompies because I wanted this thread to be anon due to the subject matter. The other was for Flip-Flop. I did not pay attention and posted by accident as Flip-Flop. But it is OK. No one on mybroadband knows me. I just did not want to be known on mybroadband as the guy who experimented and almost got smothered.

No judgement here buddy..
 

Flip-Flop

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Okay then explain this to me..

I know of people who do similar rough aggressive type things to show dominance over animals or whatever else but not Humans...

Since when did it become ok to do something like this to assume dominance ?

As a man in a text book house hold you assume dominance as the male and breadwinner without having to smother the wife or kids, it's automatic in most relationships concerning the pants wearing individual..

So how does this work ?


- If a female were to do this to me i'd think of them as a Jerk as opposed to a dominant/boss figure -



No judgement here buddy..

Maybe because it is male on male and in a sexual context? With a male-female, male dominance is assumed. Maybe with him it is a sexual power play thing.
And thank you. I appreciate it. Apart from the lady that posted yesterday, I am glad no one got ugly about the topic.
 

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Maybe because it is male on male and in a sexual context? With a male-female, male dominance is assumed. Maybe with him it is a sexual power play thing.
And thank you. I appreciate it. Apart from the lady that posted yesterday, I am glad no one got ugly about the topic.

The only bigot in here was that crazy bitch.
 

yebocan

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Looking is mild compared to what happened to the OP.

That is why I ****en screen potentials with a fine tooth comb....sorry to say, but the number of unbalanced/psychos in the gay community is scary as hell. Had an incident, where I fell for someone,...and I am not one for falling...and turned out, fake extraordinaire...created his own little reality...and I was a guest in this reality.....case of fool me once, shame on you...-
 

TofuMofu

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And thank you. I appreciate it. Apart from the lady that posted yesterday, I am glad no one got ugly about the topic.

Who would have thought a lady would be the one to get all nasty up in here? lol

I'm actually pleasantly surprised at how accepting people are. Shows we're moving forward.
 

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That is why I ****en screen potentials with a fine tooth comb....sorry to say, but the number of unbalanced/psychos in the gay community is scary as hell. Had an incident, where I fell for someone,...and I am not one for falling...and turned out, fake extraordinaire...created his own little reality...and I was a guest in this reality.....case of fool me once, shame on you...-

I feel you.

I have a friend whose bf was killed by his (the bf's) ex. Basically the ex came over all distraught so my friend's bf let him sleep over. My friend left the next morning for work and shortly after that the ex killed his bf with an axe - the bf's sister phoned my friend to inform him.

On a personal level, I'm sitting with someone who threatened my life, on the phone and followed up with a Whatsapp message, and followed up with a Whatsapp message from the cousin. So I forwarded their messages to my family, just in case they try something.
 

Alton Turner Blackwood

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Based on the previous two posts, don't you guys think that maybe there's too much testosterone in a gay (male-male) relationship?
 

yebocan

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I feel you.

I have a friend whose bf was killed by his (the bf's) ex. Basically the ex came over all distraught so my friend's bf let him sleep over. My friend left the next morning for work and shortly after that the ex killed his bf with an axe - the bf's sister phoned my friend to inform him.

On a personal level, I'm sitting with someone who threatened my life, on the phone and followed up with a Whatsapp message, and followed up with a Whatsapp message from the cousin. So I forwarded their messages to my family, just in case they try something.

All I can say, hectic man....!! Got to be so careful,...have come to realise, some messed up souls out there....-thanks but no thanks,...I do not get on such merry-go-rounds of instability
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