My first scary gay experience

[STS]

So in that case why don't I see you crying about how unnatural oral sex is every chance you get?

Please go jump in front a train, you little troll. It's clear you're just trolling for a reaction here.

It's amazing how we still live in a world where it's considered unnatural when two people love each other. When is the rest of the world going to enter the 21st century? FFS, we're in the 21st century. We should long since have moved past the stage where we care about where a man sticks his willy.

*massages Zewp's ears* wooooosa i know how it grinds you tho, i've just gotten used to it

 

[Falco]

We should long since have moved past the stage where we care about where a man sticks his willy.

what about that guy from Florida who tried having sex with a door last year? That's not normal, but could be considered natural right?

 

[TofuMofu]

Did the door say no? Then it's not rape

 

[Falco]

Did the door say no? Then it's not rape

Argh ok then, let's replace the word rape

what about that guy from Florida who tried having sex with a door last year? That's not normal, but could be considered natural right?

better?

 

[STS]

what about that guy from Florida who tried having sex with a door last year? That's not normal, but could be considered natural right?

if his dick fit in the hole, who in the universe can stop him? i'm sure there are animals who have ****ed funnier things, not that we need to look at nature for approval, just that "natural" has become some litmus test for social life and sexuality. if the laws of physics and chemistry allow it, who's going to stop you?

 

[AfricanTech]

Children are surprisingly resilient and accepting, and, in addition, are keenly observant.

Mr and Mrs Ant obviously don't want Mr Ant to be skulking around and passing off his new partner as a 'friend' - very brave of you to take this open an approach.

I don't know if I would be brave enough to have that conversation with my 12 and 14 years olds, but then I suppose you land in the situation of couples who stay together until the kids have left home / turned 18.

Good luck - the kids will need lots of love and support, and conversely/perversely, you may also find that the kids use this information to manipulate you - after all, at this point in their lives they are very 'me' focused.

Eish, life be tough...

 

[Zewp]

*massages Zewp's ears* wooooosa i know how it grinds you tho, i've just gotten used to it

I know I shouldn't let it work me up as much as it does, but it just grinds my tits so bad. I spend most of my time in the Stellenbosch student community where practically everyone is liberal and tolerant. Then every once in a while I'm yanked out of my bubble when I encounter some bigoted person from the 'real world' and remember that the rest of the world isn't as liberal.

It's like when I meet someone who is racist. I just want to grab them by the shoulders and shake them around while asking "what the hell is wrong with you?" Really, there are so many things wrong in the world today that homosexuality shouldn't even be a blip on anyone's radar. Having an issue with homosexuality is possible the whitest of all white people problems.

To homophobes, all I can say is check your privilege. If your life is going so well that you can worry about where a man sticks his willy, then you are pretty ****ing privileged.

what about that guy from Florida who tried having sex with a door last year? That's not normal, but could be considered natural right?

If he wants to have sex with a door, why not? People use dildos and fleshlights, so I see no problem with people getting their jollies off with other inanimate objects. I can't imagine what pleasure can be derived from having sex with a door, but if he likes it, why shouldn't he?

People in general are way too uptight about sex, in my opinion.

 

[Electric]

How about having sex with a car bumper?
I don't think that's normal
Unless he names the bumper and plans on marriage.
love is a special thing.

Or as Beyonce says, "Cuz if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it!!"

 

[Flip-Flop]

I know I shouldn't let it work me up as much as it does, but it just grinds my tits so bad. I spend most of my time in the Stellenbosch student community where practically everyone is liberal and tolerant. Then every once in a while I'm yanked out of my bubble when I encounter some bigoted person from the 'real world' and remember that the rest of the world isn't as liberal.

It's like when I meet someone who is racist. I just want to grab them by the shoulders and shake them around while asking "what the hell is wrong with you?" Really, there are so many things wrong in the world today that homosexuality shouldn't even be a blip on anyone's radar. Having an issue with homosexuality is possible the whitest of all white people problems.

To homophobes, all I can say is check your privilege. If your life is going so well that you can worry about where a man sticks his willy, then you are pretty ****ing privileged.



If he wants to have sex with a door, why not? People use dildos and fleshlights, so I see no problem with people getting their jollies off with other inanimate objects. I can't imagine what pleasure can be derived from having sex with a door, but if he likes it, why shouldn't he?

People in general are way too uptight about sex, in my opinion.

Homophobia is a white people problem?

 

[Ninja'd]

How about having sex with a car bumper?
I don't think that's normal
Unless he names the bumper and plans on marriage.
love is a special thing.

Or as Beyonce says, "Cuz if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it!!"

Or as Chris Brown said, "I can transform ya." :twisted:

 

[smallearth]

Isn't it possible to not hate homosexuals, and accept that they have a right to their own choice, etc, but still think that homosexuality is not natural?

Why does thinking homosexuality is not natural make one a homophobe?

 

[smallearth]

As for the post, did the OP really think he needed advice from anybody on his situation or is he just chronically attention seeking?

I mean really...

 

[Electric]

Isn't it possible to not hate homosexuals, and accept that they have a right to their own choice, etc, but still think that homosexuality is not natural?

Why does thinking homosexuality is not natural make one a homophobe?

I don't think that makes one a homophobe by any means, expressing the views on a public forum in a negative, name calling manner is.

 

[nightjar]

I also find oral sex disgusting.

Know the difference between oral sex and anal sex?

Oral makes your day.
Anal makes the hole weak.

 

[Zewp]

Homophobia is a white people problem?

It's a figure of speech meant to indicate that if you have an issue with homosexuality, you don't really have any serious pressing concerns to bother yourself with.

Maybe it wasn't the best choice of words on my part, considering the situation up in third-world Uganda, but the point I was trying to make is that the majority of homophobes are usually privileged people who don't have any serious concerns. Sexual orientation is really so trivial in the grand scheme of things. Someone's sexual orientation shouldn't bother you any more than whether their preference is for Maggie 2-minute noodles or PnP brand 2-minute noodles.

 

[Flip-Flop]

It's a figure of speech meant to indicate that if you have an issue with homosexuality, you don't really have any serious pressing concerns to bother yourself with.

Maybe it wasn't the best choice of words on my part, considering the situation up in third-world Uganda, but the point I was trying to make is that the majority of homophobes are usually privileged people who don't have any serious concerns. Sexual orientation is really so trivial in the grand scheme of things. Someone's sexual orientation shouldn't bother you any more than whether their preference is for Maggie 2-minute noodles or PnP brand 2-minute noodles.

Understood.

 

[Zewp]

Isn't it possible to not hate homosexuals, and accept that they have a right to their own choice, etc, but still think that homosexuality is not natural?

Why does thinking homosexuality is not natural make one a homophobe?

You're welcome to think or believe whatever you want (including the oft-cited fable that homosexuality is supposedly a choice). It's when people use those beliefs as a vehicle to condemn others that I have a problem with it; and that's exactly what both tRoN and kathy911 were doing.

Believe whatever backwards thing you want, just don't expect not to be called out on it when you air those beliefs in public. I'll refer you again to the pic posted earlier in this thread:

 

[STS]

Isn't it possible to not hate homosexuals, and accept that they have a right to their own choice, etc, but still think that homosexuality is not natural?

Why does thinking homosexuality is not natural make one a homophobe?

opinions can differ, i think ultimately its how you treat others. if you really can't grasp a concept, the very least you can do is not be a jerk about it, and there is a lot of concepts i don't grasp and let live. you may support poly for example, but not think a poly household is a good place for a kid depending on experiences. people have their experiences and opinions

 

[smallearth]

I'll refer you again to the pic posted earlier in this thread:

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Ah, I see, so no dissenting opinions are allowed either?

 

[Zewp]

Ah, I see, so no dissenting opinions are allowed either?

Would you expect not to be ridiculed if you insisted that the world is flat?