My first scary gay experience

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WaxLyrical said:
Dont worry boet its just gay play but when he brings out the choke chain run for the ****in hills.

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This reminds of that Will and Grace ep where Karen says to Will,
"Nobody's gonna serve you a drink in a leather thong and a dog collar."
 
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pietpompies101

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supersunbird said:
In all seriousness, you need to be more selective about who you sleep with. Learn to tell the genuine good and kind people from the bad boys... bet he got you with his bad boy charms.
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We have been talking for a while before meeting and he is a very nice guy. I still believe that. He obviously is into strange things sexually and the one he tried last night without warning ended up scaring me to no end.
I think I know what I must do. Have a open talk and discuss what he likes and what my boundaries are. He obviously did not want to kill me, otherwise I would not be here typing this. But even so, he did scare me really badly and I dont want to ever experience that fear again. He should know I that.
 
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pietpompies101 said:
He obviously is into strange things sexually and the one he tried last night without warning ended up scaring me to no end.
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Oh yeah. He is definitely gonna get your inner goddess down on bended knee with her hands clasped in supplication begging you. "I like your kinky f***ery", you'll whisper.
 
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Sensorei

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I'd think that most would be more scared of being impaled by a big fat c()ck in their butthole than a bit of rough play. Man up.
 
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pietpompies101 said:
Hello everyone. I created another username to post this under as it is a little embarrasing, but would like some input from forum members, especially the gay ones or straight people that is into "rougher things"

Just going to make it short. Hooked up with a guy for the first time last night after being curious for a long time. Afterwards, we were just lying on our backs talking when he rolled on top of me, pinched my nose closed and put his hand over my mouth. I started laughing thinking he was playing. When I ran out of breath and saw he was not lauging with me, I started to panic. He is really big and muscular so I was no match and could hardly move.

He saw I was getting really scared I guess because he then stopped and gave a peck kiss, ruffled my hair and said I must trust him.

Is rough play like that common?
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This is perfectly normal post-coital gay behaviour and simply indicates that he likes to smother guys in a relationship. You should have reciprocated by either setting his Madonna collection on fire - to show him how hot he is - or taken a dump on his chest after he's fallen asleep. Nothing says 'I trust you' more than squatting over a sleeping muscleman.

As it is your lack of gay behavioural savvy has ruined the relationship. I suggest anti-depressants, changing your hair and as a last resort, move.

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ps. Seriously now .. for me personally 'rougher things' are negotiated beforehand, especially on the first date. I'd be careful, sounds like he might have control issues.
 
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Usually, when I'm done with a girl, I just want to get the **** outta there. How can one still lie next to a strange dude.....never mind. Perhaps one has to be that way inclined to understand.
 
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