My first scary gay experience

Garson007

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Usually, when I'm done with a girl, I just want to get the **** outta there. How can one still lie next to a strange dude.....never mind. Perhaps one has to be that way inclined to understand.
You know, I agree in general. But when you find that one that cuddles really well... You just can't bare not to cuddle. They're limited in stock though.
 
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Poor quality troll post. Can only be humby.

I am not the person you are talking about and this is not a troll thread. It happened. It is alright however. I do understand why you and others might think it is a troll thread.

He messaged me and asked that I come over again tomorrow. I will bring up the subject matter and explain that he really scared me senseless and this is very new to me and I am not comfortable with things like that. Having my airways cut off by someone lying on top of me and looking me in the eyes as I struggle is not a turn on for me.

Thank you to the members that gave serious replies.
 

w1z4rd

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I am not the person you are talking about and this is not a troll thread. It happened. It is alright however. I do understand why you and others might think it is a troll thread.

He messaged me and asked that I come over again tomorrow. I will bring up the subject matter and explain that he really scared me senseless and this is very new to me and I am not comfortable with things like that. Having my airways cut off by someone lying on top of me and looking me in the eyes as I struggle is not a turn on for me.

Thank you to the members that gave serious replies.

I dont beleive you for a moment. Who experiences that type of experience then comes on a public forum and asks if its normal behavior?
 

Alton Turner Blackwood

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He messaged me and asked that I come over again tomorrow. I will bring up the subject matter and explain that he really scared me senseless and this is very new to me and I am not comfortable with things like that. Having my airways cut off by someone lying on top of me and looking me in the eyes as I struggle is not a turn on for me.
I would seriously recommend you stay away from this individual :wtf:
 

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/ left eye twitching

OP I find this very interesting. Reading that awakened something dark in me and I'm really wondering what would've happened if you stayed calm....what would have transpired afterwards.
Do you think you could repeat the situation with this bad boy for us please? Try to survive the ordeal in order to update this thread.

/eye twitching profusely
 

Electric

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to OP, you should have fapped while he strangled you.
Could have made it uncomfortable for him.

Double edged sword n stuff.
 
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I do not understand. Are you agreeing with ghoti? My understanding is that you like to strangle or have the urge to strangle woman you are intimate with? I admit, the experience at that time scared the crap out of me. But looking back, I do not believe he wanted to actually hurt me. Doing it without me knowing what his plans are is not alright however and I do not want a repeat of the event, with or without him telling me what is coming.

He does have a house mate. I think I will make sure his house mate is home before we go anywhere near the bedroom. :)
 

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/ left eye twitching

OP I find this very interesting. Reading that awakened something dark in me and I'm really wondering what would've happened if you stayed calm....what would have transpired afterwards.
Do you think you could repeat the situation with this bad boy for us please? Try to survive the ordeal in order to update this thread.

/eye twitching profusely

The kittens aren't doing it for you anymore?
 

STS

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I do not understand. Are you agreeing with ghoti? My understanding is that you like to strangle or have the urge to strangle woman you are intimate with? I admit, the experience at that time scared the crap out of me. But looking back, I do not believe he wanted to actually hurt me. Doing it without me knowing what his plans are is not alright however and I do not want a repeat of the event, with or without him telling me what is coming.

He does have a house mate. I think I will make sure his house mate is home before we go anywhere near the bedroom. :)

i meant the sex can be very interesting and complex. he probably did it to get a reaction out of you if the event happened at all. whether it's real or isn't real isn't the point, the point is you've given us a story and now it's turned into a discussion, and it's not that sensitive issue everyone thinks it is.

people can be strange and our levels of strangeness differs. for some people anal is too taboo and for others anal is the lightest kink on their list. talk to him about it, sex can be intense and tell him you don't think he had any bad intentions
 

Electric

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I agree with STS.
Everyone has different definitions for Taboo.

Sex shouldn't be seen as Taboo.
 
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i meant the sex can be very interesting and complex. he probably did it to get a reaction out of you if the event happened at all. whether it's real or isn't real isn't the point, the point is you've given us a story and now it's turned into a discussion, and it's not that sensitive issue everyone thinks it is.

people can be strange and our levels of strangeness differs. for some people anal is too taboo and for others anal is the lightest kink on their list. talk to him about it, sex can be intense and tell him you don't think he had any bad intentions

I do plan on talking about it with him tomorrow. Perhaps go for a drink instead of getting into bed again. I dont think he had intended to hurt or kill me. If he did I would not be here. If he wanted to continue with what he was doing it would not have been a problem. He is massive (muscled and bulky) and I would not have stood a chance in hell of fighting him off.

I do think however what he did was not appropriate, especially without my consent or even knowing what is happening. I really thought he was just playing when he started and I laughed, or tried to as he had my nose and mouth closed off. The emotional switch from laughing to utter fear when I saw he was not stopping and was just staring at me and not laughing with me is something I never ever want to experience again, and this I think I must make very clear to him. That is a line I am not alright with crossing.
 

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Just the fact that you've mentioned how much bigger he is than you and the fact that it scared you is more than enough to sit him down and chat to him.
 

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I do plan on talking about it with him tomorrow. Perhaps go for a drink instead of getting into bed again. I dont think he had intended to hurt or kill me. If he did I would not be here. If he wanted to continue with what he was doing it would not have been a problem. He is massive (muscled and bulky) and I would not have stood a chance in hell of fighting him off.

I do think however what he did was not appropriate, especially without my consent or even knowing what is happening. I really thought he was just playing when he started and I laughed, or tried to as he had my nose and mouth closed off. The emotional switch from laughing to utter fear when I saw he was not stopping and was just staring at me and not laughing with me is something I never ever want to experience again, and this I think I must make very clear to him. That is a line I am not alright with crossing.

a lot of women often have to deal with this kind of thing. i've had friends share their stories where they've begged the guy to stop doing something and they'd just continue, or do something to get a reaction. tell him that he crossed a line and that the only way you can continue any anything with him is if there is trust and patience
 
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