My first scary gay experience

[pietpompies101]

Just the fact that you've mentioned how much bigger he is than you and the fact that it scared you is more than enough to sit him down and chat to him.

a lot of women often have to deal with this kind of thing. i've had friends share their stories where they've begged the guy to stop doing something and they'd just continue, or do something to get a reaction. tell him that he crossed a line and that the only way you can continue any anything with him is if there is trust and patience

Yes, you are both right. This needs to be discussed openly and frankly with him.

Thank you.

 

[DerpiesFreud]

:erm: Sounds rapey

 

[Ninja'd]

Send him to me when you're done. :3

I always suspected but was never sure until now.

 

[TehStranger]

:wtf:

Yeah, that's what I thought.

 

[TelkomUseless]

a lot of women often have to deal with this kind of thing. i've had friends share their stories where they've begged the guy to stop doing something and they'd just continue, or do something to get a reaction. tell him that he crossed a line and that the only way you can continue any anything with him is if there is trust and patience

wtf....

and for OP... I would tell him to f-off if he tries it again....

 

[Electric]

wtf....

and for OP... I would tell him to f-off if he tries it again....

How though?
Op's mouth and nose were shut.

 

[TelkomUseless]

How though?
Op's mouth and nose were shut.

As soon as he let go.. I would kick that person in the nuts. Nothing funny (for women or men)....

 

[Garson007]

I always suspected but was never sure until now.

You can just come out and say it if you want to hook up with me, you know.

 

[ShaunSA]

I always suspected but was never sure until now.

Boy you really are slow

 

[Ninja'd]

Boy you really are slow

Said no woman ever.




Hey wait a minute :erm:

 

[STS]

As soon as he let go.. I would kick that person in the nuts. Nothing funny (for women or men)....

my one partner once had a guy choke her during sex and he wouldn't let go, which resulted in her kicking him in the nuts if i try anything remotely similar with her she complains that i'm too gentle tho and gives me pointers on how to do it

don't even get me started on how hair pulling is sexy until you accidentally rest your elbow on it

 

[ShaunSA]

What is your reason for wanting to strangle your sexual partner? Is it a power thing? Is it to see fear in their eyes? Do you think that is what my guy was looking for?

Hello everyone. I created another username to post this under as it is a little embarrasing, but would like some input from forum members, especially the gay ones or straight people that is into "rougher things"

Just going to make it short. Hooked up with a guy for the first time last night after being curious for a long time. Afterwards, we were just lying on our backs talking when he rolled on top of me, pinched my nose closed and put his hand over my mouth. I started laughing thinking he was playing. When I ran out of breath and saw he was not lauging with me, I started to panic. He is really big and muscular so I was no match and could hardly move.

He saw I was getting really scared I guess because he then stopped and gave a peck kiss, ruffled my hair and said I must trust him.

Is rough play like that common?

Oops

PS. Your ninja delete was too late

 

[Rocket Raccoon]

What is your reason for wanting to strangle your sexual partner? Is it a power thing? Is it to see fear in their eyes? Do you think that is what my guy was looking for?

AHA! So Flip-Flop is the OP

 

[STS]

What is your reason for wanting to strangle your sexual partner? Is it a power thing? Is it to see fear in their eyes? Do you think that is what my guy was looking for?

different things turn different people on, people find different things attractive in an act. i like the vulnerability

P.S: wrong profile

 

[Flip-Flop]

Oh no. I really wanted to stay anon. I guess it does not matter. No one knows me on here so it is ok.

 

[Ninja'd]

Flip Flop
Strangled by a top

 

[marine1]

Maybe you were talking too much and he wanted to kill you?

 

[ShaunSA]

Oh no. I really wanted to stay anon. I guess it does not matter. No one knows me on here so it is ok.

Yet

 

[Rocket Raccoon]

Don't worry. No one here will use this against you. At least we know you're not Ekstasis.

 

[Flip-Flop]

different things turn different people on, people find different things attractive in an act. i like the vulnerability

P.S: wrong profile

Ok. What is your reason for wanting to do it? I would at least want to try and understand his urge. Even though I don't want to ever have him do it again, just dismissing it would not be constructive. Maybe there is something else he can do that I would feel comfortable with.