marine1
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Marine1 does not play around. Wham bam, thank you ma'am.
I actually enjoy oral but with a woman, never had a gay experience
Marine1 does not play around. Wham bam, thank you ma'am.
I always considered having a gay experience would mean penetration, I mean actual sex.
BJ and HJ? What a waste of time![]()
It is more than enough for me at the moment. Was nice to touch and feel. Sensations rather different.
Once I feel more comfortable with being with him then maybe I will start going in that route. But last night left me unsettled after a otherwise enjoyable experience.
2. Over share. This tread has really left a bad taste in my mouth. (Ouch, ouch. Stop hitting me)
We have been talking for a while before meeting and he is a very nice guy. I still believe that. He obviously is into strange things sexually and the one he tried last night without warning ended up scaring me to no end.
I think I know what I must do. Have a open talk and discuss what he likes and what my boundaries are. He obviously did not want to kill me, otherwise I would not be here typing this. But even so, he did scare me really badly and I dont want to ever experience that fear again. He should know I that.
People, any ideas how I should bring this up with him today? Just blurt out "Why did you try and kill me the other night?" :wtf: - ok just kidding with that.
Just politely ask if he remembers what he did and tell him it really frightened me, but I would like to know why he felt compelled to do it and if there is a need it meets for him?
People, any ideas how I should bring this up with him today? Just blurt out "Why did you try and kill me the other night?" :wtf: - ok just kidding with that.
Just politely ask if he remembers what he did and tell him it really frightened me, but I would like to know why he felt compelled to do it and if there is a need it meets for him?
I would have shat my pants as well![]()
Especially seeing that it's your first experience so you're already scared to begin with. He should have known better, but perhaps he was just testing you. A good talk should do to clear things out.
Just say you want to talk to him about something that's been bothering you and go for it. He should understand, I'm sure.
First things first...
Do you enjoy being with this guy and are you enjoying the sex? If yes...
Just a simple, Bud I did not enjoy the other night. It scared me. And discuss boundaries from there.
If he is into asphyxiation etc, and you not comfortable with that. Guess this hook up is not going to work for you. walk away!
But what about letting them stick dick in you?Never stick your dick in crazy. Applies to men and women...
You want to look him deep in the eyes, grasp his neck firmly with your two hands and squeeze.
When you think he is super uncomfortable, rustle his fringe and say, "You really shouldn't trust me so much!!!" don't forget to laugh manically.