My gf got hit on at the gym.

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Geurt

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InternetSwag said:
.....I obviously trust her, but it made me angry that someone wants to take what's mine....
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Funny, I could never understand it that when a lady is one's girl friend that one has sole "ownership" of such a lady?! As I have it, you never gain "ownership" of another person but you gain total commitment through total trust between people in a relationship.:confused:

In the mating dance of people, I always understood it that when you are interested in a lady, you try to talk to her and try to get an opportunity to meet with her, to learn more of her. This is done within controllable parameters for the lady, so that she does not feel threatened or intimidated by your actions at all. So best is to talk to the lady very civilized in an environment she trusts (aka the gym where she gives class) and then assess the opportunity to ask her out (when she talks back and give some signal on the effort you made to talk), which seems to me the process the "hunk" showed, is it not? I do think or even hope we as humans have outgrown the Neanderthal manner whereby one clobber the female over the head and then abduct her to your man-cave.:whistling:

Young man, your manly inexperience, your total misinterpretation of a relationship and utter jealousy clearly outshines your intelligence in this thread discussion you started. It seems that the "girl friend" you "own" has also started to realize this and therefor her "discussion" of the "incidence" with you as well. Look carefully at your own conduct, effort and mannerism in your relationship and be bluntly honest with yourself on how you "operate" within it, you will find it lacking.:twisted:

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Purpose of thread: To let us know that OP has a hot gf.

Result of thread: Make's OP seem like an emotionally retarded charna.
 
Nick333

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Geurt said:
Funny, I could never understand it that when a lady is one's girl friend that one has sole "ownership" of such a lady?! As I have it, you never gain "ownership" of another person but you gain total commitment through total trust between people in a relationship.:confused:

In the mating dance of people, I always understood it that when you are interested in a lady, you try to talk to her and try to get an opportunity to meet with her, to learn more of her. This is done within controllable parameters for the lady, so that she does not feel threatened or intimidated by your actions at all. So best is to talk to the lady very civilized in an environment she trusts (aka the gym where she gives class) and then assess the opportunity to ask her out (when she talks back and give some signal on the effort you made to talk), which seems to me the process the "hunk" showed, is it not? I do think or even hope we as humans have outgrown the Neanderthal manner whereby one clobber the female over the head and then abduct her to your man-cave.:whistling:

Young man, your manly inexperience, your total misinterpretation of a relationship and utter jealousy clearly outshines your intelligence in this thread discussion you started. It seems that the "girl friend" you "own" has also started to realize this and therefor her "discussion" of the "incidence" with you as well. Look carefully at your own conduct, effort and mannerism in your relationship and be bluntly honest with yourself on how you "operate" within it, you will find it lacking.:twisted:

Cheers
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Datura

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My GF flirts and gets hit on when we go out. It never goes further than that. You are a possessive child. Hope for her sake she bangs you out of her system with a real man.
 
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Nick333 said:
At best it's ground for a divorce petition. Doesn't make it illegal. You couldn't sue for damages for e.g.
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Illegal != not legal... And as you mentioned, it would be used for a divorce petition. Which is how lawyers make tonnes of money...
 
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bwana said:
So she flirted with him for twenty minutes until she suddenly remembered she had a b/f at which point the guy disengaged? :whistling:

And she made sure you knew about it…
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It was a trap!!! She wanted to see OP's reaction. Women do these kinds of things
 
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Nick333 said:
Purpose of thread: To let us know that OP has a hot gf.

Result of thread: Make's OP seem like an emotionally retarded charna.
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Yep -_- Why not posting pics of you banging your property, I mean, your GF here? Just to boost your massive ego.
 
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I.am.Sam said:
fox gym in bellville or virgin active tygervalley
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What time, I'll be there like a bear!

RazedInBlack said:
Thats wierd! Females always say they want honesty yet when you present them with the full package they fold! :rolleyes:
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Back when I was still in the dating arena I had this gf, I smaaked her cousin stukkend and one day I got lucky and tapped that. So my "gf" asked me where I was the previous evening and I told her "Ag I was just fscking your cuz".

She laughed and told me to stop making silly jokes :p
 
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Datura said:
My GF flirts and gets hit on when we go out. It never goes further than that. You are a possessive child. Hope for her sake she bangs you out of her system with a real man.
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I can relate to this. Could not have said it any better myself.
 
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