Wasting is then a matter of opinion according to you.
No, not at all. But assuming because people live in more affluent areas are "wasting water" is not correct either. We all "waste" water then simply because we use water for anything else except drinking and cooking, but at a different rate of wastage. But we can ensure that what we use is used for that purpose as efficiently as possible.
The shack dweller who leaves a communal tap running is wasting water.
The Person living in a suburb who runs the shower for longer than necessary is wasting water.
The person who runs a dish washer every day when not full is wasting water.
The person who washes before they have a full load for a washing machine is wasting water.
The person who showers 3 times a day is wasting water.
But because you own any of the above and use them, does not imply you are wasting water.
When the crunch comes we ALL will have to realise that the prime use of water will be for drinking and cooking - all other use will be luxuries.