"Out of sight, out of mind" or rather ...

Dolby

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... "Absense makes the heart grow fonder"?

Which of these two do you agree with? If your SO goes away on business for a few days, do you/don't you think about them?
 

Gazer

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I think in a new, happy relationship it's the "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" phrase but in older (maybe not so fun) relationships it's probably "out of sight out of mind" :D
 

Slootvreter

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"Out of sight, out of mind" is the right approach for a relationship that just ended, and "absense makes the heart grow fonder" is applicable to short periods of separation between two loved ones/good friends.
 

blunomore

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Mr Blu is out of town for at least 3 to 4 days every week.

The upside: I get more work done when I am alone.
The downside: I miss him a lot!

Luckily, since we work together, we are in daily contact.

How about you and your SO, Dolby?
 

Dolby

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I'm a "Absense makes the heart grow fonder" type ;)

Just curious what others think
 

Slootvreter

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I'm a "Absense makes the heart grow fonder" type ;)

Just curious what others think

I'd say it depends on the situation. I'm certainly not going to miss a cheating bitch that left me more the longer she's away! :eek:
 

Gothan

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I am more of a absence makes the glass half empty kind of guy, use it, dont use it
 
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If it's a loved one: Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

If it's just someone you know: Out of sight, out of mind.
 
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superB

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Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Absence makes the green eyed monster come out to play.

Absence also seems to have a directly proportional effect (affect? I never know...) on my phonebill. He must just flippen come home now or I'm gonna have to start selling organs on the black market. I have a particularly healthy spleen should anybody be interested....
 
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