Pretoria woman accused of raping minor and sexually grooming others granted bail

[pinball wizard]

hashtagWhere'sTheMeeee2ForBoys ?

 

[Okty]

all jests, # aside, are these just isolated incidents or something more...?

best I could find:

Women also sexually abuse children, but their reasons often differ from men's

A key point of difference between male and female sexual abusers of children is in the power relationship with their victims.

theconversation.com

A significant number of females who sexually abuse children fall into the “teacher/lover group”. This comprises women in their 30s who victimise males with an average age of 12 years. The women may see the relationship as based on love, and may not see it as abusive or recognise its inappropriate nature.


Women in this group can be driven by a need for intimacy and trying to compensate for emotional needs not met elsewhere. This group can include the female teachers who become sexually involved with male pupils. They are invested in the idea of a relationship, find adolescent boys less threatening than men of their own age, and have more control over the relationship.


Another category is one researchers have termed the “predisposed molester”. Women in this group often experience abuse themselves and may have addictive personalities.


A similar category, of the “mother molester”, may comprise a significant proportion of female child sex offenders. Research has routinely indicated that women are 4.5 times more likely to offend against their biological child, as well as other children in their care.

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This is another reason why female sexual abuse of children is under reported. Gartner goes on to emphasize the often disguised nature of the problem. “Adults can be very clever,” said Gartner. “With female assault of boys, children, the abuse can often happen in the guise of something dealing with cleanliness, like during bathing. … There seems to be very little [in society] out there for a boy to feel like his betrayal is validated.” Because of this double standard, boys are much less likely to think of themselves as sexually abused and much less able or willing to report it. Often they are laughed at by police if they report it. However, it is because of this double standard that a boy who is sexually abused becomes confused about the abuse and later confused about his sexuality. He may find himself attracted to children when he becomes an adult, without any understanding of why he has such attractions. His sexual development remains stunted.

After she's plead to the charges

Dammit!

 

[Okty]

The women may see the relationship as based on love, and may not see it as abusive or recognise its inappropriate nature.

@Ninja'd Isn't that how you see your relationships?

 

[Looney]

Why? She simply fulfilled every teenage boy's fantasy, right?

There’s a big difference between a 13 year old and an 18 year old. Why would I think she fulfilled every teenage boys fantasy? You mad bro?

 

[Ninja'd]

Nope. The snoops here put sherlock to shame. There'll be a name a pics before the day is out.

It's Pretoria. I bet it's already on Facebook.

 

[Ninja'd]

@Ninja'd Isn't that how you see your relationships?

No f**king comment!

 

[hellfire]

Nope. The snoops here put sherlock to shame. There'll be a name a pics before the day is out.

Let's see

 

[ShaunSA]

#WeAllFuckingKnowThat

#triggered

 

[Toxxyc]

Nope. The snoops here put sherlock to shame. There'll be a name a pics before the day is out.

LOL, probably true.

 

[CaptainObvious]

#BasicFactsBuster

How about a link to the facts there Buster

 

[Flashgear]

“On the same day, she allegedly had oral sex with a 14-year-old boy by putting his penis in her mouth without his consent.”

How the hell does one receive a BJ against ones consent I mean he didn’t just walk by and slip next thing it was in her mouth? Seems a bit odd.

All I can say is that when I was 13 it definately would not have happened against my consent if I didn’t want it to.

 

[konfab]

#Hashtags

Hashes also denote python comments, which whilst useful can ultimately be ignored.

 

[namzsteve]

“On the same day, she allegedly had oral sex with a 14-year-old boy by putting his penis in her mouth without his consent.”

How the hell does one receive a BJ against ones consent I mean he didn’t just walk by and slip next thing it was in her mouth? Seems a bit odd.

All I can say is that when I was 13 it definately would not have happened against my consent if I didn’t want it to.

These new 13 year olds don't know how to say no.

 

[santaman202]

Too soon to be asking for leaked pics and vids ?

 

[Aquila ka Hecate]

How about a link to the facts there Buster

Jesus. The stuff is all over the place.

You can go look for yourself, but just for example, for the US:

Males constituted 98.9% of those arrested for forcible rape

 

[CaptainObvious]

Jesus. The stuff is all over the place.

You can go look for yourself, but just for example, for the US:

Arrested, how many are found guilty?

 

[Aquila ka Hecate]

Arrested, how many are found guilty?

**** it, go find out for yourself.

 

[surface]

Jesus. The stuff is all over the place.

You can go look for yourself, but just for example, for the US:

So, let me get this right. If like the apartheid apologists brag about colonization gifts "they" gave to nation and the scientists "they" produced, it wouldn't be pertinent if, as a Male, I brag about male scientist's contribution?

 

[Lupus]

Jesus. The stuff is all over the place.

You can go look for yourself, but just for example, for the US:

Males being raped is under-reported, as stated in this thread. So is male domestic abuse. Most of the time the authorities take the females side anyway, even if she was the aggressor. Face it women can be just as sick and disgusting as men. Trash is trash doesn't matter what's between your legs.

The Understudied Female Sexual Predator

According to a new study, sexual victimization by women is more common than gender stereotypes would suggest.

www.theatlantic.com

"to the National Crime Victimization Survey, 38 percent of victims were men " which is a reported amount

Male Rape: The Silent Victim and the Gender of the Listener

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

 

[ShaunSA]

Thought I saw a headline/pic in yesterday's Rapport. Can't find anything online.