Sick People

FuLL_MeT4L

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I don't know if I simply lack empathy, but people with common viral/bacterial infections really get on my nerves.

The expected response to somebody suffering from an infection is "Aw shame, I'm sorry you're not well."

What I really want to say is "You're a failure."

Falling sick is really the failure of an individual to maintain their own health. If you're eating right, sleeping right, practicing good hygiene, and paying attention to your body it becomes quite difficult to catch a cold. And when one does catch something, it's quite easy to kill it off before it sets in in earnest and one turns into a ball of gunk.

Edit: The above has been pinpointed as a source of great unrest and ensuing angry comments. I'll try again. While not all factors relating to an individual's capacity to fight disease are controllable, many of them are. I know far too many people who assign responsibility for their fighting off common illness to an external or unknowable source. People can very easily affect how often they get sick; through lessening their exposure with good hygiene, and supporting their immune system effectively with tons of sleep and good food. It is specifically the people who externalize all of the above responsibility whom I take issue with.

Not only has the careless sick person neglected to support their own body or address their own ailment correctly, but they're now inconveniencing me with exposure to their pathogens; I must spend additional resources and sleep on removing these pathogens.

Then comes the inevitable "but I'm going to the doctor later" - to which I can only muster a solemn "mhm.." in reply.

I have no idea how GP's keep prescribing antibiotics with a straight face. Standard antibiotics are only effective against bacterial infections, not the viruses which are the cause of the majority of common infections. And yet every year come flu-season I see a swarm of colleagues going to the doctor to scoop up their 'required' dose.

Not only do antibiotics do nothing for their viral infection, but it also increases their antibiotic resistance, and more crucially means that they will believe they're "getting better" without actually doing the one thing their body needs them to do for optimal recovery, that is to sleep!

Sick people are the worst. Rant end!

How do you guys handle them?

P.S. I do get sick every couple of years. I typically quarantine myself and see nobody for 3 days instead of spreading it around to those I work with or care about.

Note that in all of the above I am referring specifically to common strains of sickness that are usually called cold/flu, and people with said strains that do not take appropriate care of themselves. Of course none of the above can possibly apply to people with chronic disease, genetic disorders, or autoimmune issues. I'm talking preventable common sicknesses.
 
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Looney

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I don't know if I simply lack empathy, but people with common viral/bacterial infections really get on my nerves.

The expected response to somebody suffering from an infection is "Aw shame, I'm sorry you're not well."

What I really want to say is "You're a failure."

Falling sick is really the failure of an individual to maintain their own health. If you're eating right, sleeping right, practicing good hygiene, and paying attention to your body it becomes quite difficult to catch a cold. And when one does catch something, it's quite easy to kill it off before it sets in in earnest.

Not only has the sick person failed to support their own body or address their own ailment correctly, but they're now inconveniencing me with exposure to their pathogens.

Then comes the inevitable "but I'm going to the doctor later" - to which I can only muster a solemn "mhm.." in reply.

I have no idea how GP's keep prescribing antibiotics with a straight face. Standard antibiotics are only effective against bacterial infections, not the viruses which are the cause of the majority of common infections. And yet every year come flu-season I see a swarm of colleagues going to the doctor to scoop up their 'required' dose.

Not only do antibiotics do nothing for their viral infection, but it also increases their antibiotic resistance, and more crucially means that they will believe they're "getting better" without actually doing the one thing their body needs them to do for optimal recovery, that is to sleep!

Sick people are the worst. Rant end!

How do you guys handle them?

So you've never been sick before in your life? Mmhmmm sure.
 

chrisc

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Not quite the same as your complaint, but one of my tenants has a sick neighbour

In 2012, the previous tenant had a late-night party which kept the neighbour from her sleep. So whenever the neighbour saw this tenant, she would turn her hose-pipe on him

Come 2014 and there is a new tenant. 6 times this year, when said new tenant was walking up the drive from her car to the door, the neighbour turns the hose on her. One time there was a big puddle of water as she kept the hose aimed through the front door for about 2 mins. The SAPS called but she denied it. I sent her a lawyer's letter asking her to desist but she did not collect the letter from the Post Office. I told the tenant that the only way is to have some actual photos of this woman with her hose pipe spraying water towards the house but since July she has not co-operated
 

Sinbad

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I don't know if I simply lack empathy, but people with common viral/bacterial infections really get on my nerves.

The expected response to somebody suffering from an infection is "Aw shame, I'm sorry you're not well."

What I really want to say is "You're a failure."

Falling sick is really the failure of an individual to maintain their own health. If you're eating right, sleeping right, practicing good hygiene, and paying attention to your body it becomes quite difficult to catch a cold. And when one does catch something, it's quite easy to kill it off before it sets in in earnest.

Not only has the sick person failed to support their own body or address their own ailment correctly, but they're now inconveniencing me with exposure to their pathogens.

Then comes the inevitable "but I'm going to the doctor later" - to which I can only muster a solemn "mhm.." in reply.

I have no idea how GP's keep prescribing antibiotics with a straight face. Standard antibiotics are only effective against bacterial infections, not the viruses which are the cause of the majority of common infections. And yet every year come flu-season I see a swarm of colleagues going to the doctor to scoop up their 'required' dose.

Not only do antibiotics do nothing for their viral infection, but it also increases their antibiotic resistance, and more crucially means that they will believe they're "getting better" without actually doing the one thing their body needs them to do for optimal recovery, that is to sleep!

Sick people are the worst. Rant end!

How do you guys handle them?

But if you get sick from them, then you're obviously not eating right, sleeping right, practicing good hygiene, or paying attention to your body.
 

3WA

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they're now inconveniencing me with exposure to their pathogens.

Exposure to their pathogens shouldn't be a problem unless you have failed to look after yourself. Why don't you look after yourself better so you don't get sick?
 

ShaunSA

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OP you need something to remove that stick from your @rse :D
 

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I don't know if I simply lack empathy, but people with common viral/bacterial infections really get on my nerves.

The expected response to somebody suffering from an infection is "Aw shame, I'm sorry you're not well."

What I really want to say is "You're a failure."

Falling sick is really the failure of an individual to maintain their own health. If you're eating right, sleeping right, practicing good hygiene, and paying attention to your body it becomes quite difficult to catch a cold. And when one does catch something, it's quite easy to kill it off before it sets in in earnest.

Not only has the sick person failed to support their own body or address their own ailment correctly, but they're now inconveniencing me with exposure to their pathogens.

Then comes the inevitable "but I'm going to the doctor later" - to which I can only muster a solemn "mhm.." in reply.

I have no idea how GP's keep prescribing antibiotics with a straight face. Standard antibiotics are only effective against bacterial infections, not the viruses which are the cause of the majority of common infections. And yet every year come flu-season I see a swarm of colleagues going to the doctor to scoop up their 'required' dose.

Not only do antibiotics do nothing for their viral infection, but it also increases their antibiotic resistance, and more crucially means that they will believe they're "getting better" without actually doing the one thing their body needs them to do for optimal recovery, that is to sleep!

Sick people are the worst. Rant end!

How do you guys handle them?

You just went full retard. Never go full retard.
 

Mike Hoxbig

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But if you get sick from them, then you're obviously not eating right, sleeping right, practicing good hygiene, or paying attention to your body.

Yeah I just want to shake my head. Screw the laws of nature, if you catch an airborne infection then it's because you're not looking after yourself... :rolleyes:
 

Sinbad

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Yeah I just want to shake my head. Screw the laws of nature, if you catch an airborne infection then it's because you're not looking after yourself... :rolleyes:

OP should go treat ebola patients with his super super t cells
 

SYNERGY

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But if you get sick from them, then you're obviously not eating right, sleeping right, practicing good hygiene, or paying attention to your body.

Saw that one coming from a mile away...:D
 

Cray

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OP should go treat ebola patients with his super super t cells

Yup, those stupid Ebola Doctor's who contracted the disease caring for others, they should just have looked after themselves better, or contacted the local medical guru on this forum.
 
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