For a lot of white people, things were better. I had a white friend in the 80's and I lived with him and his family during the '85 unrest so I could continue to attend school (it was virtually impossible to commute from Soweto during that period).
I can honestly say that life was good for whites back then. I remember how nice everybody was (even to me). Neighbours knew each other, you could go anywhere without fear. It felt like one of those American small towns you see in Hollywood movies. It's not like that anymore.
u know what really p1$$#s me off, is when black people constantly remind white people how fortunate we were - we know that , get over it - we didnt ask for appartheid, yes we benefited from it - i have some really great black friends, probably not as many as i would have had if apartheid never existed.
How is a country supposed to move forward when people are always reminding us how lucky we were.
Who is getting the bursaries now, who is getting premium rate shares from certain companies, who is being put 1st in the queue for job interviews, who is 1st in the queue for varsity entry, who gets government contracts - do we whites complain -NO , WHY, because we accept that wrongs need to be corrected - albeit that the government does not do this in the correct manner. What about coloured and indians , were they not victims of apartheid , yep , and now they arent black enough?