No delusion here on my side friend.
Why don't you try living in the 1st world for almost 20 years and see what happens to your 3rd world way of thinking and living.
interesting enough you mention 3rd world country, i took a trip to Phuket/Bangkok in Feb 2006 (3rd world countries) and seriously i dont even think SA deserves to fall into the 3rd world category. They have a transport system that works, you can walk around late at night without having to even worry about crime, the tourists are extremely and well looked after.
The tsunami damage in Phuket was barely visible, imagine a tsunami hitting Cape Town , 5 yrs later we would still be trying to sort out the damage , after fraudulent tender process's and corrupt government officials have taken there "cut" of the money to be apportioned.
So all in all, there is nothing wrong with living in a 3rd world country, its just which one you choose.