So who gets to decide? You, the driver? Don't you think anyone who loses control at high speed didn't already make that decision? How can you rule out speed as a factor in the outcome of one or more moving bodies colliding? Speed was not a factor until it was. It makes you do nothing of the sort. If you're unable to control your vehicle yourself you shouldn't be on the road.
You should worry about hitting anything at any speed, but speed should be a factor in determining the level of concern, or do you disagree?
Who gets to decide: someone who's qualified in it, which it seems wasn't done for most roads.
My point was that a blanket statement of speed = reckless driving, it's not, my point is that circumstances dictate speed.
E.g. in the US, in order to slow people down in suburbia, you just create small outcroppings from the side that narrow the road, people will not feel comfortable driving as fast and slowing down.
Doing 140kmph on the N2/major highway is perfectly fine most of the time if traffic is clear, good visibility and your car can easily manage it.
Going 140kmph if any one of those factors are not there is reckless driving, e.g. old car or bad visibility or traffic/multiple cars or road conditions not good or you don't know the roads, etc.