This is a bit of delayed post. The incident happened earlier this year, but its really starting fester. Now, this is not a post by a disgruntled parent. I think we all know that sport quota's exist, so regardless of my perceptions or views that fact still remains. I feel I have brought my kid up well and to not see colour. He has brown kids as friends so I believe we live in a pretty balanced environment.
I have a 10 year old son. He was invited to cricket trials for our district. He played incredibly well and there was a general consensus that he was one of the top kids there that day. Unfortunately he didn't make the team. Why? T
here was a quota that needed to be achieved, so some brown kids were picked ahead of him. My son got wind of this from one of the officials that day, it didn't phase him when he heard it earlier in the day until he put the two together. He now feels / knows this is why he didn't make the team.
Since the incident I have been trying to down play the whole issue. But he is not letting it go. The constant questions are:
- Why are black people better than me?
- Why am I being punished for something I never did?
I try be as diplomatic in my responses, but he is just not buying it. Basically my son sees the colour of people now, where prior to this incident he didn't.
Sports quota are a thing, so there is no point into arguing that they are not. He will experience this in the work place as well in the future, so there is no point in pretending they don't exist. But it got me thinking, basically we as a country are always going to be divided by race. It wont change until these policies change.