Well we all have different levels of chattiness, my wife thinks that I talk to much in those situations.
When applying you could hear few key words like Canada and UK (I would say parents in early 40's).
In our circle of acquaintances/friends there is undeniable truth that many are actively looking at leaving SA and may left already.
Color is not factor, from black doctors to Indian engineers to white estate agents (mine left to US).
Just last week family that would be great asset to any country left.
It is not only young but established people with experience that this country desperately needs.
As I said before over 40 years of age ESKOM engineers that I know were snapped up within month of their resignation.
I'm not a guy that likes to see place burn but Huston we have a serious problem!!
I somewhat agree with your post. There are many doomsayers here, what young people are looking for is opportunity. Take a look at Romania, Bulgaria, Poland, Slovakia... These countries suffer a lot from emigration. Most of them go to Germany or the UK. They can earn a lot more there. This applies also to South African.
I have South African relatives who spend years in Dubai, UK or even Australia and came back to SA. Thanks to the money they earned they bought a big mansion in the Garden Route area.
If you move, don't do that based on emotions. That should be a wise, calculated move. The UK is definitely not paradise, many unsafe areas, crime rampant, acid attacks from Pakistani gangs. People tend to be very cold there.
By the way, most of the emigrants from SA are now from the Black middle class, many of them go to Mozambique, Angola and around for greener pasture. I would say 50% emigrant from South Africa are Black people middle class. That's a little bit unfortunate as the country needs them, but as I said : people only look for better opportunities...