Tokolotshe
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The son of a friend of ours' wanted to become a pilot. Good marks etc. Rejected because of ... yep. His mom spent a small fortune and some to get him through flying lessons. Eventually she could no more. He applied to the French Foreign Legion. He is no longer a South African. He also got to do what he wanted to do and is excelling, flying anything with wings.My son wanted a military career like I had when I was young. I was selected for and sent to university by the SADF. He had the perfect matric subjects for a military career, math, science, geography, history and languages. Good pass marks too. We applied to the SANDF a bit more than 20 years ago after his matric. The answer? He was not demographically representative of the population of South Africa and therefore rejected. No consideration of his subjects nor marks achieved. So someone without those skills got his place because of the colour of his skin.
So my son applied to the British Army. After presentation of his matric subjects and marks, an interview, fitness and medical tests he was given a letter of guaranteed employment. He served over ten years and saw the world. I missed him by a week in Singapore when I was there for work and he was on his way to Borneo for jungle training after being in Japan and China. He visited me in SA when they were training in Botswana and when they were training at Lohatla. I just missed him when I was working in Germany and Belgium when he was on his way to Italy to train their troops. I did manage to see him in London before he was deployed to Afghanistan while i was working in Scotland.
After his service he joined the Metropolitan Police and is now studying at university through them. The army is also paying for extra university studies as that is one of the benefits of his army service. He has bought a house with a garden near London and has a decent car.
When I look back now, I believe the best thing that could have happened to him was the rejection by the SANDF. In SA he would have been a second class citizen always sucking the hind teat for employment and a place at university. He would never have what he now has and would be worrying that it was going to be expropriated had he managed to have anything.
So Cyril, any good reasons he should have stayed in SA? And to The Champ and Ex Calibre, do you think he had white privilege?
So yep, Cyril should find another nut to suck.