‘I faced Stellenbosch University’s racial gaslighting head -on’
Cape Town - It was May 16, the end of the day, and I was about to turn in for the night.
A notification popped up on my mobile device, lighting up a dimly lit room. A headline with the words ‘Stellenbosch University’ drew my attention, and as a former employee at said institution, naturally, my curiosity was piqued.
An article by a news outlet left me feeling irate and frustrated; another race related incident at Marais Huis and Stellenbosch University.
I learnt of the horrible ordeal that a young man had been put through. A student by the name of Babalo Ndwayana, a name on everyone’s lips right now, a young man who had his dignity stepped on by a fellow white student in the now notorious and widely publicised ‘Stellenbosch University urinating scandal’.
A question arose in my head; just what the hell is the matter with Stellenbosch?
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Then there are those who are neck-high in denialism, who are defensive, who ‘whitesplain” and adopt an almost avoidant attitude about past events and/or any other race-related issue that may, potentially crop up for previously disadvantaged individuals.
The latter of the two classes often seeks justification and attempts to make acceptable and palatable what is obviously not.
They view the world around them from under a restrictive lens and have no plans to adjust it.
There is the possibility of underlying shame, ignorance or apathy; this behaviour is synonymous with what is known as ‘White Fragility’.
The term white fragility can be defined as “the tendency among members of the dominant white cultural group to have a defensive, wounded, angry, or dismissive response to evidence of racism”.
In my experience, there is a deep rooted shame (an often cagey approach) in some when referring to matters of the past and its effects today.
Boomers and some millennials suffer cognitive dissonance when race- related matters are brought to their attention, matters involving the institution or even the town.
It is very disturbing, however, when we learn that the offender is a post- apartheid aka "Gen Z" product, and obviously, has no first-hand knowledge of the above, only what has been dictated and taught to him by his guardians and his community.