Thinking I should start looking into dating a white woman...

[saksakgp]

As many of you may or may not know, I'm black. I speak Zulu but I'm Swati by culture. All my life I've been dating black girls, it didn't matter if they were Zulu, Xhosa, Tswana, etc. If I dated a girl that spoke a native language I wasn't good at, like Pedi or Venda, we would communicate in English. I've never dated anyone outside my race. I now think it might be time to explore women from other races, whether they are Indian, Asian, Coloured or White.

I love my fellow black girls, but there are things they, generally speaking, do that turns me off completely. Allow me to generalize a bit about black women . Below are some of the reason I'm considering dating non-black girls:
- Blacks women love wearing weaves. Most wear hair that originates from girls in India or Brazil. The hair might make them look more attractive but it's not natural, it's fake.
- Another reason I despise weaves is it makes black girls wash their hair once a week and sometimes once a month. I can't help but think of all the germs on their head. Some black girls go to the gym regularly, they work out a sweat, go take a shower and don't wash their hair. So there's sweat on their head for days or weeks up until they wash at the salon. I've been with a few women with weaves and the thought of bacteria or germs on their head disgusts me. Sorry to say this!
- I'm generalizing but black girls tend to be promiscuous, just like their male counterparts. Except me of course .
- The thought of one day paying lobola, I don't believe in lobola but no black girl will marry someone that won't pay to marry her.
- They are God fearing and are Christians. I'm Agnostic. They believe prayer will solve problems and also blame the devil if "evil" things start happening.

There are other less significant reasons white black women are not my favorite anymore. There are two reasons why I might not date white women. Firstly it's because they, generally speaking, love traveling and going on holiday to overseas countries. Some spend up to R50 000 just for a holiday around Europe. The second reason is obviously family and friends. Unfortunately we are still a racially divided country and a black person dating a white person is still taboo.

So what are your thoughts guys?

EDIT: Black women tend to have children at a young age, and you find a situation where all black women my age have a child or two. This is different to white women.......I think.

Go for it bra. That mountain biker guy did it
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uxp8CveWxd0

 

[Satyr]

Sly21 is in for a huge surprise...or not

 

[rubytox]

Some biased statement specially for you Sly21:

1. is it true that black men like women with big bums?
2. Do they also like their women to be big and fat ... to show that they are well provided for by their men?

If the answer is "yes" to the above two, you will have to aim low on the white social ladder.

 

[Saltex]

Some biased statement specially for you Sly21:

1. is it true that black men like women with big bums?
2. Do they also like their women to be big and fat ... to show that they are well provided for by their men?

If the answer is "yes" to the above two, you will have to aim low on the white social ladder.

Yes i'd like to know why black men love a big woman? They always turn their heads for the hippo but never for the skinny chick?

 

[Sly21C]

Go for it bra. That mountain biker guy did it
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uxp8CveWxd0

Inspirational and refreshing.

Some biased statement specially for you Sly21:

1. is it true that black men like women with big bums?
2. Do they also like their women to be big and fat ... to show that they are well provided for by their men?

If the answer is "yes" to the above two, you will have to aim low on the white social ladder.

Yes i'd like to know why black men love a big woman? They always turn their heads for the hippo but never for the skinny chick?

I think those questions should be asked on this thread http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthr...9537652&highlight=questions+black#post9537652

The answer is yes we love women with big bums. Over the years I've realized that women with big bums tend to attracted too much male attention, which means increased competition and increased stress levels because your woman must be happy, even though her demands might be outrageous.

 

[rubytox]

Inspirational and refreshing.





The answer is yes we love women with big bums. Over the years I've realized that women with big bums tend to attracted too much male attention, which means increased competition and increased stress levels because your woman must be happy, even though her demands might be outrageous.

Can you please translate this to isiZulu?

 

[Pho3nix]

Yes i'd like to know why black men love a big woman? They always turn their heads for the hippo but never for the skinny chick?

I'm almost the opposite. A big woman almost broke me
Prefer average/petite women personally.

 

[rubytox]

I'm almost the opposite. A big woman almost broke me
Prefer average/petite women personally.

Are you referring to a body part?

 

[Satyr]

On a more serious note. I also have a few questions for you Sly:

1. How old are you?
2. Where in Pretoria do you live?
3. Where and how do you usually meet the women you date?
4. Do you have any friends from other races?

 

[Pho3nix]

Are you referring to a body part?

Something like that now I keep to petite women. No more DD either

 

[Redeemed]

I see OP is in Pretoria, be careful or you might get moered by some white okes.

 

[Knyro]

You seem to have a very idealised view of white women but believe me they can be just as full of crap as a woman of any other race. Demanding, illogical, princess mentality etc etc. In the end it comes down to the individual.

I know black girls that are atheists, would prefer to avoid lobola, are metalheads etc. basically destroying every stereotype there is about black women. Likewise I know white girls that are staunch Christians, blame the devil when things go wrong, believe BS like astrology etc. Also contrary to popular belief some white women wear other people's hair too. They're called extensions.

You're in for a rude awakening too on the promiscuity front. Some women women are, some aren't.

If you want to date white women that's cool, but don't stereotype people because of their race, even if it's positive.

 

[Pho3nix]

You seem to have a very idealised view of white women but believe me they can be just as full of crap as a woman of any other race. Demanding, illogical, princess mentality etc etc. In the end it comes down to the individual.

I know black girls that are atheists, would prefer to avoid lobola, are metalheads etc. basically destroying every stereotype there is about black women. Likewise I know white girls that are staunch Christians, blame the devil when things go wrong, believe BS like astrology etc. Also contrary to popular belief some white women wear other people's hair too. They call them extensions.

You're in for a rude awakening too on the promiscuity front. Some women women are, some aren't.

If you want to date white women that's cool, but don't stereotype people because of their race, even if it's positive.

If only could meet this kinda woman in JHB

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[reactor_sa]

....
you say Generations, she says 7de Laan
you say Chiefs & Ajax, she says Bulls & Sharks
you say pap and sauce, she says tjop and salad
you tune to Good Hope FM, she tunes to 5FM

Hahahaha, made my day

 

[Knyro]

If only could meet this kinda woman in JHB

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Admittedly I only know a handful, but then again I don't know that many atheist, anime loving rockers anyway.

That feel when black girls look at you like you've got a third arm when you start talking about rock music

 

[Nerfherder]

I've seen plenty of black dudes with white chicks. Here in Cape Town we're a bit more broad-minded and open.

Ye... noticed this as well.

People say CT is more racist but there are a lot more mixed race couples. I have even seen white guys, that you don't see often.

I regret not dating more girls from different races, I think coming from how I grew up it was a matter of opening up to different people.

I'm married now but I met a few nice girls (Indian, Coloured, Black) that I would have dated.

 

[Randux]

just in case buy gloves that wont fit your hands

 

[buyeye]

just in case buy gloves that wont fit your hands

He wouldn't be able to afford that kind of lawer. What's happening with the Pretorious case?

 

[OrbitalDawn]

You seem to have a very idealised view of white women but believe me they can be just as full of crap as a woman of any other race. Demanding, illogical, princess mentality etc etc. In the end it comes down to the individual.

I know black girls that are atheists, would prefer to avoid lobola, are metalheads etc. basically destroying every stereotype there is about black women. Likewise I know white girls that are staunch Christians, blame the devil when things go wrong, believe BS like astrology etc. Also contrary to popular belief some white women wear other people's hair too. They're called extensions.

You're in for a rude awakening too on the promiscuity front. Some women women are, some aren't.

If you want to date white women that's cool, but don't stereotype people because of their race, even if it's positive.

You're from Cape Town, right?

If only could meet this kinda woman in JHB

/foreveralone.jpg

Can't afford to be finicky about races when the pickings are so slim. :twisted:

Regarding the OP. Meh, bitches be crazy either way. But go for it, you've got nothing to lose.

 

[Knyro]

You're from Cape Town, right?

Nope.