Thinking I should start looking into dating a white woman...

[OrbitalDawn]

Nope.

That's odd. I'd reckon your chances of meeting people like that would be much higher in Cape Town.

 

[TelkomUseless]

The answer is yes we love women with big bums. Over the years I've realized that women with big bums tend to attracted too much male attention, which means increased competition and increased stress levels because your woman must be happy, even though her demands might be outrageous.

I loled. Most [white] women I know, don't want to be fat/big at all.

And loled at " increased competition ".

 

[Knyro]

That's odd. I'd reckon your chances of meeting people like that would be much higher in Cape Town.

Maybe they are but not not all of us non-Capetonians are knuckle-draggers you know

 

[Nick333]

@ Sly21C: Give it a go and see what happens. Just remember most white women are pretty liberated which for you means helping with dinner and doing the dishes etc. Call me racist if you will but, I can't picture most black Saffer males doing housework.

 

[Grant]

Try all the flavors in the packet, don't scratch around looking for the vanilla, chocolate or toffee

 

[WaxLyrical]

Warning to OP.

Some hippie white chicks don't bath and shave for weeks on end.

Might get lost in the swamp.

 

[Sly21C]

On a more serious note. I also have a few questions for you Sly:

1. How old are you? 28
2. Where in Pretoria do you live? Centurion
3. Where and how do you usually meet the women you date? Both through internet dating and mostly through people I know.
4. Do you have any friends from other races? Not really

Why the personal questions?

@ Sly21C: Give it a go and see what happens. Just remember most white women are pretty liberated which for you means helping with dinner and doing the dishes etc. Call me racist if you will but, I can't picture most black Saffer males doing housework.

Life's too short, I'm gonna give it a go. Like someone on this threat said, I've got nothing to lose.

I'm currently a bachelor and live alone. I do my own cooking, wash my own dishes, do my own laundry, house cleaning and I iron my own clothes so there won't be a problem there . Most black men that don't do their own house work are the older generation, the younger men are mostly like me.

 

[Nick333]

Life's too short, I'm gonna give it a go. Like someone on this threat said, I've got nothing to lose.

Cool. There are plenty of white women in Joburg who either are into black guys or don't see race as an issue. Not so sure about Pretoria though.

I'm currently a bachelor and live alone. I do my own cooking, wash my own dishes, do my own laundry, house cleaning and I iron my own clothes so there won't be a problem there . Most black men that don't do their own house work are the older generation, the younger men are mostly like me.

Ja, clearly just my perception.

 

[wordsik]

Yes i'd like to know why black men love a big woman? They always turn their heads for the hippo but never for the skinny chick?

had to chuckle first before I could answer this question
so you have picked up the expression on another mans face when they see a hippo
very attentive

am going to be stereotypical for a sec here

you are likely to find a white woman with the best rack out there and for blacks to compete will go the Pamela Anderson Route
you are likely to find a black woman with the best phatty out there and for whites to compete they will go the JLO route or Kim K route

At the end it has a lot to do with what we grow up being exposed to one can argue that we the biggest when it comes to being endowed one can argue otherwise for Caucasians

blacks guys are assasinators while whites are rack city people

 

[Nick333]

Since this thread is OT anyway...

I've got to say I've always valued skinny over big boobs or bums but, as I get older I find big boobs and a nice firm bigger ass more and more appealing.

 

[Mike Hoxbig]

Well if you're going to generalise black girls, allow me to play devil's advocate and generalise the other way. How do you know if a white/indian/coloured girl will be into you as a black man? They might stereotype in the same way, and immediately discard you before giving you a chance.

 

[rubytox]

Well if you're going to generalise black girls, allow me to play devil's advocate and generalise the other way. How do you know if a white/indian/coloured girl will be into you as a black man? They might stereotype in the same way, and immediately discard you before giving you a chance.

Maybe OP can confirm whether black men are as well-hung as they say?

If size really matters, then he shouldn't have a problem hey?

 

[Nick333]

Well if you're going to generalise black girls, allow me to play devil's advocate and generalise the other way. How do you know if a white/indian/coloured girl will be into you as a black man? They might stereotype in the same way, and immediately discard you before giving you a chance.

Who you talking to?

 

[Mike Hoxbig]

Who you talking to?

OP, but I didn't want to quote his wall of text

 

[Nick333]

OP, but I didn't want to quote his wall of text

 

[wordsik]

at the end of the day he can go on an try dating out of his race but shouldn't justify by stereotyping
cause the same could be said for a diff race to the one you from..we all have our flaws

Ps" I am black and yes I have dated outside of my race from my varsity days
the more things change the more they stay the same ...go full circle and try it out.
get it out of your system then go back home

 

[Ms_S]

Now you are just sterotyping..Don't know which girls you know but white,black,indian and even chinese girls that I know have kids at 21,22. It's not a black thing :erm:

I've noticed that having a child before marriage is much more common amongst black women. I know women of all races and backgrounds have children out of wedlock, but where I come from, once the girl is pregnant, she usually marries the guy. But around here, the woman will just continue to date the guy or they break up shortly afterwards. I asked a black girl about it, and she said its her culture to have the child before getting married.

Although I know labola is a reason most of them get married when they much older, cos its crazy money families ask for.

 

[Mila]

Sly, just get a good woman.

That's all.

 

[Pho3nix]

I've noticed that having a child before marriage is much more common amongst black women. I know women of all races and backgrounds have children out of wedlock, but where I come from, once the girl is pregnant, she usually marries the guy. But around here, the woman will just continue to date the guy or they break up shortly afterwards. I asked a black girl about it, and she said its her culture to have the child before getting married.

Although I know labola is a reason most of them get married when they much older, cos its crazy money families ask for.

There is a OLD tradition of men getting the woman pregnant before they marry to make sure they are fertile and can give you an heir but in 2013 most women and men that have had children out of wedlock use this as an excuse. It is the same for the most part though, when a man impregnates a girl he can either marry her or pay for the child(to have his last name) and pay for damages to the girls parents for "damages";it's usually easier and cheaper to marry lol thus the man parents put pressure on this to happen.

 

[Cius]

I've seen it work in rare cases but mostly the culture thing is too big to overcome. Dating is about finding the right women for you that you want to settle down with. Hence dating someone you know you will never marry is really just wasting time on that quest. I dated a girl from another race and within a week it was obvious that I would never be able to marry her as the cultural difference was just too big, especially when it came to how they handled money strangely enough. I've had crushes on a girl from every race in SA but after my experience actually dating outside of my culture I decided to stick closer to home to increase the chances of the relationships actually working out.