I was the plaintiff.Sorry man.
You don't have to answer these if you don't want to.
Who initiated the divorce?
Does either party feel the other party wronged them?
So how much?16 August: today is the day I got divorced in court, after 9 years of marriage.
The past few months leading up to this point ... and the years before that ... have been some of the hardest ever emotionally for me. The journey isn't over.
However, as a 33 year-old guy, I discovered just how little I knew about divorce and what it would practically require of me. There aren't guys really talking about it (most views I found were from women and didn't apply to me).
If I can help anybody else who's considering taking the plunge, I'll happily do that. If you don't want to ask questions here, feel free to message me.