- Feb 14, 2012
Sies! Living in SinIn a relationship for 2 and half years and 3 months ago I purchased a property (in my name only).
I pay for the bond and levies etc. and I have only asked my partner to cover the groceries and electricity.
We had the discussion a while back that if we had to get married it would be ANC accrued
Today, she told me that I'm being selfish and only thinking about myself because I don't want to be married COP. Her argument is that while she did not contribute toward the payment of the house, she is using all of her money with nothing guaranteed from me. i.e If something happens she won't get back any of what she spent.
Also made mention that she could always go back to live with her parents and not pay anything if that's the case
Am I being selfish here or sensible?