Sounds clichéd, but I'm married because my wife knows everything about me, and accepts my weaknesses, and she is still with me. Relationships are easy (comparatively), try getting married and having a child. It's VERY hard work. But going for a picnic in the park on Sunday morning, you remember what it's all about. Don’t get me wrong, there are rough times when the D word gets thrown around, but as a couple you persevere through it. I'm married (in a relationship) because I finally met someone who understands me better than I do, and who I love till the end.
P.S. Dated for two years, married for 5.
I'll piggy back off your post.
I'm in a sort of relationship at the moment, because the lady I'm friends with and spend most of my free time with, just refused to take no for an answer.
She's got a sweet character and a really good heart and there's nothing she won't do for me. Also, added bonus is she's completely head over heels for me for some unknown reason
I don't have lots of money, I don't even have a car yet, but she still wants to be with me. She knows when not to tick me off and if she does, she knows how to handle the situation.
She knows I won't ever sit and sob for an hour long how bad I had it in life or whatever or wherever I may have transgressed in my life. I expect the same from her.
We know each other's positives and strengths and that's how I'd like to keep it. Like we discussed. It's really lame in a start of a relationship to have this guilt trip about who you are/were and share your pedigree with the other person. In my opinion, it doesn't prove you can trust the other person, it proves to me that I don't fully trust my maker for all His pardons and I place my trust in a man.
All in all, my lady friend is sweet, cool and she has a good sense of humour. She also helps me to bathe now that I'm in injury101 school
