Why is it so challenging to find someone who is willing to commit to Christian dating?

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@naledi96 said:
Yes. I did, comparing myself to these women i see here, who i consider hotter than me but rated at what i would rate myself. So just one or two scores below would do me good. But on average I'm still 7/10.
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It's like buying a house. It's ultimately worth what a willing buyer will pay for it, regardless of what expectation a seller has of the amount they will get for it.

You don't get to set the number out of ten that you are. To someone you will be a 1.5/10, to someone else you might be an 8. The market dictates the rating, not you.
 
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@naledi96 said:
Yes. I did, comparing myself to these women i see here, who i consider hotter than me but rated at what i would rate myself. So just one or two scores below would do me good. But on average I'm still 7/10.

And No. You keep on asking for an apology you will never get base on "Bitch please, nobody wants you". That was uncalled for and definitely does not deserve an apology. Very rude. You yourself should read the bible on how to get some manners and watch your tongue.

I also see the persistence of wanting my pictures. In my own time I'll probably give you Facebook, Insta or twitter handle so you guys can check me out yourselves. But for now I'd rather you judge fairly based on what I want and said, not because of how I look like.
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This whole rating thing is getting out of hand. Please submit your pictures for review.
 
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@naledi96 said:
We have all heard that sex before marriage is a sin but too few people compared to the world's population get married virgins.

I am 25yrs old and not a virgin. For the past two years, I've been learning new things about my Christianity that I did not know or that I was not entirely really taught while growing up and I have made decisions based on those things.

One of those decisions is to not have sex again until I get married. Which is fairly easy as I don't really have that much experience with the other gender. I've only tried dating twice in these two years and both were turned-off by the fact that I want to avoid sex...until marriage most preferably. But even Christian guys seem to think I'm chasing pavements.

Is this really too much to ask for?
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Out of interest were they turned off because of the waiting for sex or because you were pushing the Christian thing hard in conjunction with the no sex thing?

Each to their own and I am sure you will find someone who shares the same belief system and is willing to wait.
These people are likely in the minority of those you will meet though.
I dont think I could wait until marriage before having sex with someone. It doesnt mean it has to be rushed, but I would definitely like to know about sexual compatibility before marriage
 
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@naledi96 said:
I just managed to watch two Kevin Samuels videos "Savage Moments." Real heat right there

Although most of these women are low-class and middle class women, some with kids, in their 30s and 40s looking for high-value men. And he's really telling them off.

I did come across one 47yr old with 2 kids who has renewed herself, wants a high-value man and doesn't want give up the cookie until commits .
My expectations are more realistic than these women. And most of them sound broke with actually nothing to offer to these guys.

I also rolled my eyes on some of these ladies' demands. I actually need to turn myself down a notch and say I'm probably 5-6 out of 10 because he rates women who I would say are are 9/10 or even 10/10, he gives them 7-8/10. Reality check right there.
Will still watch more from him and other videos that some folks posted here.
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Mine own standards aren't very high (unlike abzo) and I'd even be willing to wait a few months.
 
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@naledi96 said:
Yes. I did, comparing myself to these women i see here, who i consider hotter than me but rated at what i would rate myself. So just one or two scores below would do me good. But on average I'm still 7/10.
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The funny thing is.... most honest guys don't base their evaluation of a potential marriage partner on superficial things.

What commonly happens is the guy identifies a "league" of woman (using physical attractiveness) that in his mind would actually be attracted to him and from there looks for less obvious attributes. Those other attributes are what he actually wants but he needs to know he is superficially attracted to the woman as well and uses that as a starting point.

Sometimes it's the job of the woman to convince the man that she will actually have proper interest in him because he simply cannot believe it.

In the back of the mind of a single man there is always the spectre of "this woman is so beautiful she can't be interested in me I earn too little" because he knows there are men with bigger pockets than him that she will be more attracted to because of the benefits that these bigger pockets will afford her. This is why so many men actually aim below what they are actually worth (in their minds) or just don't bother at all because they believe their case to be hopeless. It's a cousin to the dunning kruger effect.
 
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hehehe OP wants relatiohsip advice about why men don't want to wait and steps into a small army trying to catch and bed her.....
 
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I once tried to mack on a Jesus chick by telling her that the Lord showed me a dream where we were together. She responded by asking why the Lord didn't show her the same dream.

You can’t win them all.
 
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3WA said:
I once tried to mack on a Jesus chick by telling her that the Lord showed me a dream where we were together. She responded by asking why the Lord didn't show her the same dream.

You can’t win them all.
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Smart chick
 
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