Why is it so challenging to find someone who is willing to commit to Christian dating?

TelkomUseless

TelkomUseless

Honorary Master
Joined
Mar 13, 2006
Messages
14,785
@naledi96 said:
Yes. You are getting it right. It is called renewal. I am renewed. Old me gone, new me here. Take it or leave it.
Click to expand...
That is good for you. And that is your choice.

And its the person who wants to date you, choice too. Remember he picks YOU too. If he is happy with that then awesome you are off to a good start.
 
rh1

rh1

Executive Member
Joined
Aug 5, 2011
Messages
7,310
Afon Kulikov said:
Strong independent woman that can take care of her self and tell me on my crap.
Click to expand...
1. Strong, independent types, tend to be aggressive, masculine types i.e. similar to a man. Personally, I would hate coming home to an aggressive woman.
2. My wife is feminine and we discuss things like adults. Were there arguments over the years, yes but luckily, few and far between.
3. Strong, independent types - I worked with them, and for them etc, tend to be unmarried in their 40s. Because of:
-> I dont need a man attitude
-> I earn alot, so my man needs to earn more
-> not willing to compromise, my way or the highway.

Nothing wrong with the above, as it was their choice. But as every adult knows, choices have consequences.

@naledi96 Its going to be a hard sell. Guys around your age are not interested in marriage, sex is easily available without the need to jump through hoops, and from younger girls. Thanks to the feminism movement, which greenlighted promiscuity.

There is a lot of women who took advantage of this and racked up high body counts. The problem is that they turn 25-29, and now wants to settle down.

Manosphere is currently telling young men not to marry, as it can literally and figuratively destroy their lives, rather to invest in themselves i.e. skills, health & wealth.

And after levelling up (generally from their 30s) they will have access to the 20-25 yr old women who are willingly having as much sex with as much men, provided these men has status.
 
purple face

purple face

Executive Member
Joined
Apr 20, 2021
Messages
5,456
@naledi96 said:
We have all heard that sex before marriage is a sin but too few people compared to the world's population get married virgins.

I am 25yrs old and not a virgin. For the past two years, I've been learning new things about my Christianity that I did not know or that I was not entirely really taught while growing up and I have made decisions based on those things.

One of those decisions is to not have sex again until I get married. Which is fairly easy as I don't really have that much experience with the other gender. I've only tried dating twice in these two years and both were turned-off by the fact that I want to avoid sex...until marriage most preferably. But even Christian guys seem to think I'm chasing pavements.

Is this really too much to ask for?
Click to expand...
how's your christian dating life going?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top