Why is it so challenging to find someone who is willing to commit to Christian dating?

[@naledi96]

I suggest you watch Kevin Samuels videos on Youtube. From watching his videos, I have realised that alot of woman has an over inflated rating of their own attractiveness. Maybe, you are accurate. I dont know, nor do I care.

In some of videos, he does explore this topic where woman renew themselves and complain that men are not interested.

Warning though, there is a lot hurt, angry men on his platform.

Thank you. I'll check him out.

 

[LCBXX]

It's disingenuous to say that they have sexual issues in the first place.

If you post about your sexual issues on MyBB, it's hard not to assume.

 

[pinball wizard]

If you post about your sexual issues on MyBB, it's hard not to assume.

Assumption makes someone an ass, yeah?

 

[LCBXX]

Assumption makes someone an ass, yeah?

I am kind of a cvnt anyway...

 

[Lupus]

 

[Binary_Bark]

If you post about your sexual issues on MyBB, it's hard not to assume.

Specially when you add in some religious BS as an excuse for something that is your own shortcomings or choices

 

[@naledi96]

Yeah I would totally agree with this.

The religious angle is more an excuse at this point and it will drive people away when a response of "I don't want to jump in the sack quickly" is a way more reasonable one and one that the vast majority of guys will be ok with.

Yeah I would totally agree with this.

The religious angle is more an excuse at this point and it will drive people away when a response of "I don't want to jump in the sack quickly" is a way more reasonable one and one that the vast majority of guys will be ok with.

Please read my other comments and original post and try to understand what I'm saying..

 

[danny0]

Sup @naledi69 @naledi96?

 

[Zurg]

Perhaps you'd be better of dating individuals from church, doesn't need to be the same one, variety is the spice of life.

 

[hellfire]

Ja hy. I mean I also really like intimacy. I'm attractive with a great body (maybe 7/8 out of 10) and well educated. It's really easy for me to find guys who like me that i like back.

I sometimes get asked out by attractive and stable guys, and sometimes get to know them. But i normally bring up that topic right from the beginning so that the ground is solid and its usually a turn off. Which tends to lead me to thinking that maybe they are only physically attracted to me (lust) and are probably only after sex.

There is a possibility of having sex b4 marriage obviously, but i don't want someone who will want it on our 1st date or just after a few days or weeks. Let's wait it out a few months at least.

The facts that is. They are like that. Take them or leave them. I

Thank you. You actually get it hy. It actually is important to me and people can make you feel like a freak sometimes for knowing exactly what you want and standing up for it.

And about coming to the forum, you arw absolutely right. Thank you for the great advice.

But why the wait to get married?
Why do you have to have a long dating period and engagement?

 

[ToxicBunny]

Please read my other comments and original post and try to understand what I'm saying..

I have read it, and I do understand what you're saying.

You're putting a massive roadblock in front of the guys right up front... and I will be straight up honest with you I would also walk away even if I wasn't interested in jumping in your pants in the first few weeks and wanted to get to know you and all that for a while. As Paul states as well, you're also throwing "marriage" into the mix very very early on which will cause lots of guys to run a mile regardless.

You need to tone down your approach on this if you want to try widen your pool of possible suitors.

 

[Paul Kemp]

I sometimes get asked out by attractive and stable guys, and sometimes get to know them. But i normally bring up that topic right from the beginning so that the ground is solid and its usually a turn off. Which tends to lead me to thinking that maybe they are only physically attracted to me (lust) and are probably only after sex.

Maybe not bring that up so early. Your intentions may be coming from a good place but besides the sex you are bringing up marriage in the process and that alone would send the wrong message. Let the relationship grow a little before you drop that bomb.

 

[HunterNW]

I am kind of a cvnt anyway...

I'd like to buy you a beer.

 

[LCBXX]

I'd like to buy you a beer.

We should rather go shoot rifles together. And then a beer.

 

[GhostSixFour]

We should rather go shoot rifles together. And then a beer.

Just don't touch the tips or cross the streams...

 

[Binary_Bark]

We should rather go shoot rifles together. And then a beer.

Beer and whiskey on the back of his Bantam first then rifles

 

[pinball wizard]

But why the wait to get married?
Why do you have to have a long dating period and engagement?

Well, what is marriage?

Where in (for the OP's benefit) the Bible does the way marriage is conducted as we know it mentioned, like the standard lines and so on and so forth. Marriage wasn't ever a contract in the Bible, was it?

 

[PsyWulf]

You might be trying to find fresh fruit at spar,rather than at a farmer's market. Time to change hunting grounds

 

[RedViking]

Eish OP.... You are better of hanging yourself than coming to Mybroadband for Christian advice.

 

[ToxicBunny]

Eish OP.... You are better of hanging yourself than coming to Mybroadband for Christian advice.

I must admit, people have actually been generally quite kind on that front so far in this thread.