Voicy
Honorary Master
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- Sep 19, 2007
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Don't take our comments for anything more than face value...see how your date goes. She might be cool, she might be bat crazy...it's the luck of the draw.
There was a really cool girl who used to live across the road from me way back when. Very chilled and went through tough times holding jobs, so she moved to CT and became a stripper. She's even written an article for one of these fhm whatnot type magazines about her experience.
I think they all realise that it's not a permanent career and have to milk it for all its worth while they're still in their prime. I'm pleased to see that she now lives in Jhb and is working in the corporate world.
One thing you must remember is regardless of whether she was the girl next door or a crackwhore, it is unfair of you to try and change or "save" her if you do start dating. Either you accept her as she is, or you move on, but you can't accept her conditionally. Keep in mind, she was there to work. You were there to have fun. So the moral highground is questionable.
There was a really cool girl who used to live across the road from me way back when. Very chilled and went through tough times holding jobs, so she moved to CT and became a stripper. She's even written an article for one of these fhm whatnot type magazines about her experience.
I think they all realise that it's not a permanent career and have to milk it for all its worth while they're still in their prime. I'm pleased to see that she now lives in Jhb and is working in the corporate world.
One thing you must remember is regardless of whether she was the girl next door or a crackwhore, it is unfair of you to try and change or "save" her if you do start dating. Either you accept her as she is, or you move on, but you can't accept her conditionally. Keep in mind, she was there to work. You were there to have fun. So the moral highground is questionable.