Would you inform a friend if their partner is/was adulterous?

Smokey mcpot

Smokey mcpot

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RanzB said:
This bra is handing out two for one specials.
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I read this again and realized it seems as if I might have a short temper.

for clarity sake... I spoke to him respectfully and explained the effects it would have on both our daughters being exposed to that kind of behavior and made it clear that I definitely don’t want my daughter exposed to it as she doesn’t even hear a swear word in our household. He listened and his body language was almost as if he understood and was agreeing with me. After my little speech he simply asked me “do you pay rent here”. I was shocked and said no. He proceeded to tell me I shouldn’t make demands in his house until I started paying rent.
Boy was I shocked and pissed. I explained to him that I’m trying to be respectful and trying to speak to him “man to man”. He told me to speak to him when I start paying rent.
Now I started boiling! I then told him that I’m not asking and this time warning him... if my daughter ever witnessed anything like that again he’d be sorry and I left.
While walking to the car he proceeded to tell me to F*** Off and that I can expect the same behavior when my daughter comes again in 2 weeks.

That was the limit and the rest was history.
I ended up paying for the gate I broke and a little warning (and laughter) from police after they heard the story and let me go.
 
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Fulcrum29 said:
Personally I won’t intervene, or get involved in any way. I have already had my hands burnt in the past.

No good deed goes unpunished, but I have learned better since.

Also, it is not my place to evaluate what is going on behind closed doors. In the case, there is abuse happening there are other appropriate avenues to pursue.

Jealousy is also bad and may have severe repercussions. I pity some women, sometimes too many men wants their bratwurst buried in the same hole.

You may peek into an open relationship which is also not your business, and you won't get some.
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This.

I would not say anything. They will believe the partner's lies over the truth. Stay out of it, they have to figure it out for themselves.
 
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Papa Smurf said:
My hand never ever cheats on me
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Made me remember this
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