I just lost it and screamed like crazy.must have woken up the neighbours. Every day I have to hear my wife nag about something so irrelevant. all the very important stuff I take care off is forgotten. And then the next day it's like nothing happened. And maybe I get an apology. Not sure how much more I can take.anybody else dealing with this?
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Mike Hoxbig
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I'm pretty sure most guys do. Women like drama in their lives, and to make their lives seem a lot more dramatic than it actually is. That's why she'll harp on about everything she does, while anything you do goes unnoticed - because you don't introduce enough drama to it. If you don't have the energy to do that (and most guys don't), the best thing to do is just bite your lip and put up with it. In through one ear, out through the other.
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I would if I could
It's usually about something else, they do this in round about ways and don't address the real issue.
you are with her why?
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Point me to a woman that doesn't do exactly what your wife does and I'll show you a LIAR.
That's just the nature of women dude. +1 on the "women like drama in their lives", that is one of the reasons why soapies are so damn popular even though I can predict the exact story-line months from now and tell my mom exactly what happens, she continues to read the preview blurbs in You and watch diligently. (She does the same thing as your wife as well)
You have to approach a woman (even the ones you love) the same way you'd do an infant. If it wants attention it's going to pick something up and break it. Best to ignore that (and their attempts to make you want to argue with them).
So lets say you didn't put down the toilet seat and she moans about that (even though 99/100 times you do remember to do it, you'll hear about that OTHER time you also forgot). Just ignore her. Don't even acknowledge her existence. It'll drive her insane to the point of getting MAD at you. When she confronts you about not listening to her, just look at her and say "So you really think that it's worth your energy to crap on my head because of a toilet seat?"
Don't (whatever you do) try to defend yourself by pointing out the things you do do. They don't care. It's the things you don't do and the things you said you'll do but didn't get to (in a timeously fashion) that makes them go crazy (or...crazier... bitches be crazy already)
I saw a "image" on facebook today saying the reason why men work more than women is because women get it right the first time. Which is bull****. Men work more than women to a) stay away from her nagging all the gawd damn time or b) busy with the **** she has ordered him to do because she controls the ***** and he will just have to abide by her will or lose out.
... and women wonder why men cheat on their ass...
That's just the nature of women dude. +1 on the "women like drama in their lives", that is one of the reasons why soapies are so damn popular even though I can predict the exact story-line months from now and tell my mom exactly what happens, she continues to read the preview blurbs in You and watch diligently. (She does the same thing as your wife as well)
You have to approach a woman (even the ones you love) the same way you'd do an infant. If it wants attention it's going to pick something up and break it. Best to ignore that (and their attempts to make you want to argue with them).
So lets say you didn't put down the toilet seat and she moans about that (even though 99/100 times you do remember to do it, you'll hear about that OTHER time you also forgot). Just ignore her. Don't even acknowledge her existence. It'll drive her insane to the point of getting MAD at you. When she confronts you about not listening to her, just look at her and say "So you really think that it's worth your energy to crap on my head because of a toilet seat?"
Don't (whatever you do) try to defend yourself by pointing out the things you do do. They don't care. It's the things you don't do and the things you said you'll do but didn't get to (in a timeously fashion) that makes them go crazy (or...crazier... bitches be crazy already)
I saw a "image" on facebook today saying the reason why men work more than women is because women get it right the first time. Which is bull****. Men work more than women to a) stay away from her nagging all the gawd damn time or b) busy with the **** she has ordered him to do because she controls the ***** and he will just have to abide by her will or lose out.
... and women wonder why men cheat on their ass...
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No underlying reason. She's a woman. That's about the only reason she has or will ever need.
cos i dont wanna put my son thro a seperation right now
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today it was about something i did not put away
this week has been especially difficult. i usually ignore her cos i know there is something else bothering her. if i were to ask her about the problem it will just blow up anyway. Eish! Plus it was time to go to bed, now i am awake and have 4 and a half hours of sleep time left
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damn, I'm going to die a virgin
:erm:pleeeeeeeeez snookums, been married longer than you've been breathing
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Women are crazy. All of 'em. All you'll be doing is trading one nutjob for another. Cross fingers my wife never reads the MyBB forums!
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damn, I'm going to die a virgin
pleeeeeeeeez snookums, been married longer than you've been breathing
Ah, well one thing I've learned is women giving advice on women automatically cancels out the advice.
Logically the advice might be sound, but it's like you've never met another woman before and/or are ignorant towards how they act and react in situations.