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Thread: Girl made false accusation of rape after her ex-boyfriend rejected her

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    Sue her.
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    Simple solution - she's a sex offender now, and should be registered as such.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lsheed_cn View Post
    Simple solution - she's a sex offender now, and should be registered as such.
    Wow. So telling a lie, which was recanted before it got completely out of hand, is the equivalent to being a sexual offender? Think you need to give this another thought.

    This girl should do some decent community time, like 400 hours, which is 8 hours a week for a year to help actual victims. Or just to go out with the police. She should also issue a written apology to the boy and family.

    It's important to teach boys about consent, and what is appropriate consent. We all agree to that. But, on the flip side of the coin, girls should be taught the same thing, and when rape is rape, and when it is not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Emjay View Post
    Wow. So telling a lie, which was recanted before it got completely out of hand, is the equivalent to being a sexual offender? Think you need to give this another thought.

    This girl should do some decent community time, like 400 hours, which is 8 hours a week for a year to help actual victims. Or just to go out with the police. She should also issue a written apology to the boy and family.

    It's important to teach boys about consent, and what is appropriate consent. We all agree to that. But, on the flip side of the coin, girls should be taught the same thing, and when rape is rape, and when it is not.
    Sure, it's not rape, but it is a lot more serious than it is currently made out to be.

    False accusations can and do ruin lives. Men have committed suicide over false rape accusations.

    She should be charged with wasting police time and perjury, barred from ever holding a directorship position in a company, and probably sentenced to 2 years in jail.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TelkomUseless View Post
    Exactly. Guy reputation is damaged (people assume he is guilty). She walks away free...
    Yep, saw it happen a few years ago as well, the guy had schit for about 4 years afterwards.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Emjay View Post
    Wow. So telling a lie, which was recanted before it got completely out of hand, is the equivalent to being a sexual offender? Think you need to give this another thought.

    This girl should do some decent community time, like 400 hours, which is 8 hours a week for a year to help actual victims. Or just to go out with the police. She should also issue a written apology to the boy and family.

    It's important to teach boys about consent, and what is appropriate consent. We all agree to that. But, on the flip side of the coin, girls should be taught the same thing, and when rape is rape, and when it is not.
    Sexual offender registry is a bit too much but community service is also too lenient. She only recanted when questioned closely, who knows where it could have ended up if she was examined and her family asked questions. People have ended up in jail on false accusations, who knows how many more are doing undeserved time because someone accused them similarly to "punish" them and overzealous prosecutors pounced and refuse to have the cases followed up closely just to earn promotions and wins.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slootvreter View Post
    Yep, saw it happen a few years ago as well, the guy had schit for about 4 years afterwards.
    And probably still does from time to time... false rape accusations stick like **** for life, always a question mark over it, people whispering in corners and what not
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    Absolutely disgusting what she did. At least her name is now splattered around the internet for potential suitors to find and hopefully stay away.

    Wonder if the ex can take her to court for slander.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Temujin View Post
    And probably still does from time to time... false rape accusations stick like **** for life, always a question mark over it, people whispering in corners and what not
    Yeah, the social stigma lingers long after the accusation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by biena View Post
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    Wonder if the ex can take her to court for slander.
    He probably could, if he can prove potential damages.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VernD View Post
    He probably could, if he can prove potential damages.
    A rape accusation, even false, sticks with your for years and damages your personal and professional reputation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ninja'd View Post
    A rape accusation, even false, sticks with your for years and damages your personal and professional reputation.
    Yeah, but the court usually wants you to put a number on it.

    From a state perspective, she could be charged with laying a false charge, but that doesn't help him much though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Temujin View Post
    And probably still does from time to time... false rape accusations stick like **** for life, always a question mark over it, people whispering in corners and what not
    He's living abroad now, but he had quite some trouble with this.

    Although you've never been to court, there seems to always be a record of arrest, and a reason for your arrest at the time. Years ago I applied for a job at a wealth management company, and they picked up my arrest record, and I had to provide them information with regards to it. I had quite a hard time getting them the paperwork they needed, and luckily found a better employment opportunity.

    NOTE: My arrest was for assault GBH, not rape
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