I assume that you have reported that the item/s have not arrive on the expected date, if not you need to report it withing 39 days of that date, I have had refunds in such situations. Problem is, I believe once it gets to South Africa things go awry.
Have you complained to WISH? I have found that I have had refunds on products that I was unhappy with, you have 30 days after receipt of the item in which to do this. It also helps to post a review of the article especially if you are disappointed.
I'm 82 years young and have to my recollection had three, the first was serious about 50 years ago, speeding car slammed into the passenger side, hospitalise my family in Natal, the second one at the highway prior to the M2 coming from the south, a Taxi ran up my backside and my car was a...