I don't understand the problem you are creating for yourself.
Suppose the debits go off your account. And you have another R10k worth of accounts to pay by EFT, etc. Just transfer her the R10k.
What do you mean?
Debit orders go off on their own if there is money in the account.
If there are other accounts, etc., that need payment, just transfer the money over to her.
It's all relevant.
Make as much as you can and invest it wisely.
Some folks can retire on R30-40k pm; some need R60-80k. Some maybe more. And some even less.
Easier said than done. But the sooner you start saving for retirement, the better. It's never too late.
From this chair I am sitting...
That thing is an F-150 Raptor from the States. N/A
The end? The end is at the nearest filling station, usually, if you don't plan accordingly.
And I am saying this from experience. If you don't plan your trip according to the Raptor's consumption, you're gonna step in shiiit.
But again, it...