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Thank youSorry bud, hoping for all the best for you and your family
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Thank youSorry bud, hoping for all the best for you and your family
So it seems things are progressing well. 16 March 2023 will one year since she passed.We confirm that the final Liquidation and Distribution account has been examined by the Master and permission has been granted to advertise the accounts. For your records, please find the account attached.
The accounts will now be advertised and open for inspection for 21 days in the local newspaper, Government Gazette and local magistrate's court.
We will then proceed to finalise all taxes, transfers, and collections before distributing the estate.
I'm glad it went so fast.We got notified that the final Liquidation and Distribution account has been examined by the Master of the court now in January 2023. It was handed in at the court in January 2023 as well.
So it seems things are progressing well. 16 March 2023 will one year since she passed.
Sorry for your loss. Really sorry for the situation that you are in. According to my experience so far with CL I would gladly pay those premiums for many years to come knowing that there is someone that will sort out everything that is needed and cover costs.I'm glad it went so fast.
My dad also died in March. Nearly 11 months has passed and the executor, a chartered with over 20 years experience, has still not received his appointment letter!
Meanwhile my sister and I can't sell his house. That's a R20k lost for every month of delay (if you add up the time and costs to keep it ready for sale plus the opportunity cost of the capital that stuck)
The Master of the High Court of North Gauteng is supposed to look out for our best interest (the heirs). But right now they are just dead weight in the process!
Perhaps CL is more clued up that our chartered accountant on the requirements of the Master of the High Court. Or perhaps you were just lucky that the estate got transferred to South Gauteng instead of North Gauteng. (Rumor is that South Gauteng is much faster than North Gauteng). Or perhaps CL are aware of this difference and have intentionally set up an office in South Gauteng in order to funnel estates there.Sorry for your loss. Really sorry for the situation that you are in. According to my experience so far with CL I would gladly pay those premiums for many years to come knowing that there is someone that will sort out everything that is needed and cover costs.
Yes, I would stay away from that. Will his shares be sold upon the unwinding of the estate? Was it held in his personal capacity or does it belong to a trust? The majority of our shares belong to the family trust. So that just keeps on going if anything should happen.Perhaps CL is more clued up that our chartered accountant on the requirements of the Master of the High Court. Or perhaps you were just lucky that the estate got transferred to South Gauteng instead of North Gauteng. (Rumor is that South Gauteng is much faster than North Gauteng). Or perhaps CL are aware of this difference and have intentionally set up an office in South Gauteng in order to funnel estates there.
At least the executor isn't a bank:
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Banks also to blame for major delays in finalisation of deceased estates
Seem to lack the appetite to offer decent client service.www.moneyweb.co.za
It seems like the best long term solution is for the elderly to restructure their assets so that it can always be managed properly: For example my dad had partners in his company and they can now continue to run it. His shares in unit trusts and listed companies are also performing okay.
Another example: My mom's flat is in my sister's name (funded by a loan from parent to child). If my mom dies, my sister can immediately sell it.
He's ok, still breathing but not himself yet. Still very little focus and confusion and loss of memory. He's busy changing his meds according to what the psychiatrist suggested. He got an upcoming appointment with her later in the month. Hopefully, we can make some changes and try to get him back to his old self.@W@P, how's your Dad?
He's ok, still breathing but not himself yet. Still very little focus and confusion and loss of memory. He's busy changing his meds according to what the psychiatrist suggested. He got an upcoming appointment with her later in the month. Hopefully, we can make some changes and try to get him back to his old self.
Unfortunately with this kind of meds it takes time to drop one for another and it takes time again to see what effects the new one has. Dis maar kak. It's been months now and he's still "nowhere".
No, he is at home. He has had depression for a very long time and it was under control with his meds, until my mother passed and they had to adjust the meds. I hope we can get a "recipe" that works soon. It's awful to see him this way.Sorry to hear thatI have read that manic episodes affect the brain, not sure about the depression part.
Is he still in hospital?
No, he is at home. He has had depression for a very long time and it was under control with his meds, until my mother passed and they had to adjust the meds. I hope we can get a "recipe" that works soon. It's awful to see him this way.
Saturday at the funeral. I could just see all the emotions and feelings coming back again. For me as well. It's the eldest sister of the 3 sisters that passed. She also helped clean out all my Mother's cupboards at all their homes. And now she's gone too. Leaving just one sister behind.
Life has a way of dealing one's cards I guess.
It is going better. I don't want to talk to soon but it looks like we found the culprit that was making my dad so sick. Someone mentioned how sick one of their family members got while using Stilnox. Depressed etc. So I said to my dad hey why don't we change the stilnox you are using for something else. And low and behold. Changes started happening. It's been roughly a month now that he is off it and he already shows signs of life.@W@P how is everything going?