Big shift in marriages and divorces in South Africa

[ToxicBunny]

I am here on mybroadband, we dont know people outside of the four walls of this basement. Dont talk rubbish that you know people IRL.

Agggg true... But wait, peeps in MyBB have made long threads about divorce, so even here its happened... Eish.

 

[Avbob se stoep]

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holy moly, this is a masterpiece of a profile. A relationship therapist who is divorced and who believes in star signs... perfect.

 

[Fulcrum29]

I have already achieved this one on my bucket list

 

[semaphore]

You don't need to be married to be liable to pay maintenance.

I never said you did.

 

[s0lar]

I never said you did.

My apologies sir.

 

[Sworaxe]

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Jir, assumed this was an American. Kan maar loop antie.

 

[MentellusMaximus]

Marriage is fine, as long as it is an open marriage.

 

[W@P]

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Makes me feel I want to give her a go, just for the experience. Living on the edge and all that.

 

[Nuke]

As a guest?
Or as a groom/bride?

As the groom.

 

[MentellusMaximus]

Makes me feel I want to give her a go, just for the experience. Living on the edge and all that.

How did this work out for her marriage?

 

[DapperDanMan]

As the groom.

In future news: Nuke was NUKED at his wedding reception.

 

[My_King]

Makes me feel I want to give her a go, just for the experience. Living on the edge and all that.

No no, "No Hookups". Is mos a lady

 

[TelkomUseless]

What exactly has changed that you make this statement?

Women get custody of kids by defacto standard of court's view. Kids become meal tickets.

Dad has to pay a crazy amount of kid maintenance money. So the woman get's like a 2nd income (not taxed)... and she gets 1/2 of your stuff during divorce. Why stay and "sort" anything out, if she can pack her bags and get extra R10k per month tax free?

No need to sort out issues... unhappy ? She just have to make sure she has kids... and she is set for nice living increase.

 

[DapperDanMan]

I would not recommend to any young man to get married today.

Can't see why anyone would want to get married.

Today's poll is in disagreement. You should go and vote.

 

[TelkomUseless]

Today's poll is in disagreement. You should go and vote.

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Should have asked how long are they married too... (and how many children).

And if they are actually happy. Lots of people just stay together for the sake of not being alone....

 

[W@P]

No no, "No Hookups". Is mos a lady

Heard that before. Plenty of times. Only a lady till she's not.

 

[Zurg]

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Sounds like shes looking for someone to pay the bills.

 

[newby_investor]

How did this work out for her marriage?

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Don't think it's really a relevant thing. I'm an electronic engineer, my tech is all just about broken. My dad is a mechanic, his car is constantly giving problems.

And if they are actually happy. Lots of people just stay together for the sake of not being alone....

Hey listen, whether you're married and whether you're happy are not necessarily related. I've met some miserable single people too.

 

[rh1]

Someone asked about parental rights, but it appears their post is missing:

https://www.justice.gov.za/vg/children/dsd-Children_Act_ExplainedBooklet1_June2009.pdf

 

[Nuke]

In future news: Nuke was NUKED at his wedding reception.

Naa, it won't be cheating in my case. Girl knows about it and promised to make sure the bridesmaids are hot. Though she did say she will be having some fun with a bridesmaid herself too.

If it were to happen, the bridesmaid would be someone we have played with before.