Nah, I've been watching Andy for 5+ years and he has sizes 100Ah-600Ah paralleled together. All that happens is the bigger capacity battery takes more of the load than smaller capacity while the parallel connection keeps voltages balanced and identical automagically.
Ask him what issues they had. Your installer is just taking the piss imho. Maybe he doesn't want the drama of trying to get comms working with different brands or something? Me personally I will forget about comms and just use voltage mode. This will void a sunsynk warranty I think so just buy the cheapest crap out there.
Andy even demonstrated an extreme example of paralleling a 5Ah with 300Ah. The 5Ah took a smidge of the load while the 100Ah took the rest.
Not sure why I'm bothering posting the video as no one watches them anyway because they are "too long" but here it is for what its worth