I've now officially turned into an unofficial bank for family members

Lived like a f**ing hobo for years, saving money and killing debt where I could, then two months before I kill my final 2nd home loan debt in record time, thinking I might actually finally have a bit myself to "live a little" I turn into a financial buffer for other people.
FML.
The thing that f**ks me off the most is that the money that can change people's lives when they really need it, tends to be a fraction of the motherf**ing cash they're happy to burn on oversized and overspecced bakkies and cars with k@k excuses as to why they buy these f**Ing s**t heaps to begin with.... and of course, when you warned them about that years ago, you were the p**s.