
There is lots to be gained by ingratiating yourself to the people around you. Many of the things we admire and respect were accomplished though collaboration and also through hierarchical structures. I'm not saying go be an automaton but rather learn what good can be created in a given situation and how to arrive at it.
The reason I took a guess at your age is that you still have that cocksure attitude that results from a fair amount of natural talent; honed skill and outright ignorance. I have a couple years on you and I am only now getting a glimpse of exactly how much I really
don't know.
lol, I frequently admit that I don't know much. I really truely don't. Sometimes, compared with others I can't even believe I can write a single line of code.
But one thing I started doing from when I first started writing code for money was to tell myself "I'm the best. Nothing is impossible. If I can't figure this out nobody can"
Because early on I got quite depressed. Especially if I couldn't figure out WHY or HOW something worked.
The only thing I do know is I'm good at my job. I suck at the rest of life. But I know I'm good at what I do.
And I can give you names and phone numbers to call and you can ask them about my attitude. It's exactly what you mentioned. I don't mind being ignorant. As long as I can show you something is not "impossible"
Funny, going back to my prev company I did some contract work for them and the one programmer (new dude I didn't know) required help to figure something out and I'm like, "Where'd you get that library" and he's like "no I wrote it".... so I was like "ahu, and you'll notice on line xyz a function with the name "print" which handles everything automatically for you etc etc etc"
Turns out I was the one who wrote the library, he just added some xml feature or whatever and couldn't figure out why the printer kept printing wrong because of different versions of adobe acrobat.... eish indeed. but anyway!!
Even though I come across ignorant it's mostly because I know whats going on, how to solve the problem and in the simplest way. I do have a fair understanding in view points and can change my opinion.
